Do you like to cuddle?

Question

If you do, tel me why.

If you don't, tell me why not.

What does it do for you?

DO you like it a lot?

Do you like it a little?

What does it not do for you?

Be as detailed as you want.

If I missed a poll option, please add it in your answer if you want.

Amanda97 · Accepted Answer

Oh my gosh! I love cuddling so much! just thinking about cuddling and reading about cuddling is making me have butterflies in my stomach and smile!

What does it do for you?

It turns me on. It makes me smile and be really happy. It gives me butterflies in my stomach and I feel so loved. I feel so protected, comfy, warm, loved, happy, excited, and just SO GREAT whenever I cuddle or think of cuddling!

DO you like it a lot?

I LOVE IT A LOT! It is my favoritest thing to do in the whole wide world.

Do you like it a little?

I like it a little. But mostly, I LOVE IT A LOT!

What does it not do for you?

It does not make me sad. IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY!

Be as detailed as you want.

I LOVE cuddling my crush or lover the most. Hugging other people is okay but not as great! Because when I hug a person I love, I feel so happy and complete that they would want to hug me! I am so happy! Cuddling is so fun! Hugging beautiful boys is the best thing in the world! But the best ones are my crush or lover! It gives me willie nillies and butterflies and smiles and it warms me up and I feel so happy that I smile for the whole day after a hug from my crush!

txcos20 · Accepted Answer

i love cuddling. I'm a very touchy-feely person, and stuff like that (without sex) is my way of saying I love/care about you. honestly, I've never had a boyfriend so I've never snuggled with a guy :(  but to me it makes me feel loved, comforted, protected with his arms around me, I would most definitely like all the little things too (i.e. twirling hair, little massages, kissing) and I would probably like it a LOT ha ha its kinda hard for me to explain with out ever having had that, but there ya go :-)

loveisbeautiful · Accepted Answer

Well I never been in a relationship before, so I never cuddle before. But, I hope one

day I'll get to. Because, I have feeling I'd totally love it! : )

Til then, I'll just imagine what it will be like and dream about it. Like I do most things,

in this life were relationships are concerned.

journeyman1126 · Accepted Answer

What cuddling does not do for me is get me off sexually. Something may occur during cuddling that sparks desire in me. But not unless you're just that sexy.

What it does for me:

Lowers my blood pressure. Strange how important that gets as I get older. I relax to my core with my special snuggle bunny in my arms.

Makes me feel loved. Even if we're not in love yet.

It gives me something to do, usually in your hair, which can cause you to need to always carry a hairbrush after I've wrapped strands around my finger for an hour or two.

It lets me palpate all your stress points to see if you've really had as good a day as you're telling me or if you need a massage. Which usually does lead to sex even if I don't want it to at the start. I just can't straddle your ass for long without becoming preoccupied with it.

I like cuddling a lot, I may be addicted to it. This may be my twelve step moment. "Hi, my name is Steve, and I may be addicted to lying on the couch with women."

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I just saw your post in the popular section and recently answered another question about cuddling, so I’ll post a similar answer. :)

I enjoy cuddling and do it to express intimacy, give comfort, and possibly give pleasure without having to resort to sex.

I'm a leg man, so I enjoy positions like these where I can touch and hold her legs.

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I also like resting my head between her thighs while holding her legs. Sorta like this link but we’re laying down. But resting on her lap like this link is nice too.

Those are my main preferences, but other cuddling positions are fine with me too. It also depends on my mood and her mood. If she has her own preferences, then I’m more than willing to accommodate her.

Do/would you enjoy any of these cuddling positions?

MrOracle · Answer

I like cuddling a lot. I don't want my girl to sit across the room from me, I want her next to me so I can hold her, and squeeze and caress her when I want to. And I prefer that we stay the night, rather than go home after having sex (something we almost never do, and only when it's absolutely necessary), because I want to sleep beside her.

I've never understood the guys who want to kick their girl out when they're done having sex, or push her off when she sits down next to him. WTF is that about?

countrygirl123 · Answer

Aww! All the guys answers are so cute! Lol, but as far as cuddling with my boyfriend, it is one of the sweetest things we do together. We hang out near pools a lot, so when he is sitting in one of those big beach chairs, he will want my to come sit between his legs and wrap his arms around me. He probably doesn't think too much into it, but I think it is super sweet. Also when we are just chillin' on the couch at home, I'll rest my head on his chest and his arms will be around me :) Mind you, he is 220lbs/ 6'4" all muscle I'm 103lbs/ 5' so I definitely have that protected feeling when his arms are around me. I love being cuddled by my man :)

Freetobe007 · Answer

I love cuddling. Mainly because I'm a giver. I like to see that warm, tingly smile spread across someone's face. There are lots of ways to do that when you're cuddling if you're creative. Somehow, the guys that I've cuddled with are always muscular and macho so it's nice to see them let their defenses down and take off this macho, manly act/guard that they present to everyone once they get in my arms. :)

meghan19 · Answer

I love cuddling. But it's only super awesome when the person you are cuddling also loves cuddling. It just is something you can do to be close and I adore that feeling. Cuddling before bed is the best, and randomly waking up because my boyfriend rolled over and decided to snuggle me. :)

may04 · Answer

I don't like it. I've only ever had FWB relationships and cuddling turns out to be the only thing that takes my feelings out of check. For me it's more intimate and bonding than sex, which in turn made me absolutely miserable with the last person I was with. If I ever get into a real, exclusive relationship I'm sure I'll love it and appreciate how it makes me feel, but given my current situation I have to say no I do not like it. It mindf***s me.

GoodManDave · Answer

I like cuddling with the right woman. With some platonic girl friends, it's a bit awkward. I won't cuddle very often if dating won't happen, or if I think romantic feelings could start.

It's great.

I'm an affectionate guy, but I so rarely get to show that side that I am probably a little too cuddly sometimes. It's playful (sometimes), you can get warm (not meaning in a "dirty way"). It's nice to be close with someone you want to spend time with.

Anonymous · Answer

I do. I love cuddling with a lot of people, it just feels nice and its a warm closeness that is so different from how you interact with people in life usually. also I'm just abnormally affectionate. with some friends who let me get away with it, I like to hold their hand and touch them a lot. Its also just a way of making people feel better if theyre having a hard time with something. its a way of saying "i care"

and depending on the person, it can lead to other x rated things lol

Kearra · Answer

I love cuddling. I like being close to the guy listening to his heart...its comforting makes a bubble that the bad in the world can't touch. I like cuddling after sex it makes it feel like it means more to me. I like it when we wants to just be with me to be with me. I like to cuddle when I'm sad or before I go to sleep and when I wake up, even if we only can for a min.

shalehandro · Answer

I enjoy to cuddle, specially when watching movies. Ill get such a solid boner I just lift my girl up and slowly get it in her. Preferably after rubbing her p**** to get in stimulated.

Simply nice warm passionate love that is more specially when you and your Girlfriend fit good in size.

HifsMit · Answer

I've built up big forearms, chest and back for a reason, and it's not to fight, it's to crush a woman in between them.

kdizzleforizzle91 · Answer

I love cuddling. It's just a way to relax and spend time with someone you care about, whether it's a family member, friend, or significant other. It's just another way I can spend time with a person... we don't even need to talk. Just laying there and enjoying the quiet together, feeling that little bit of phycial affection and forgetting about everythings bad that happened that day.

DebiPie · Answer

Yes, sometimes. It makes me feel close & sexual. After sex? Nope, I am not a cuddler then. I'm good, I can roll over & go to sleep for awhile. I really do not like to be all cuddly while I'm sleeping. :D

sikoo31 · Answer

the best cuddling for me is when I get to feel her skin; run my hands over her thighs, feel her ass a bit. best cuddling:  naked, spooning.

gonyr · Answer

definitely, before, after, or even without sex. best cuddling position is the girls head on my chest

PoeticNinja · Answer

No, I don't like cuddling.  My hair gets in the way, it's too 'mushy' for me, and it gets too hot.  I mean, I'd cuddle with the guy for 5 minutes.. Then, I want my space.

aft18 · Answer

I love it, I think it's because it makes me feel safe, protected and it's comforting. I love being close to someone physically and mentally and cuddling makes me feel that way.

helpha · Answer

I like cuddling. It's comfiest when my head is on his chest and I can feel his heart beat and he just holds me. We don't necessarily talk, either, sometimes we'll just lay there--- it's nice, he makes me feel safe.

wilbur12 · Answer

Cuddling to me is fun because it shows your passion for them without anyone giving up sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I love to cuddle, but I must admit I become self conscious just because I am afraid I am not doing it right or in the way he wants or if my weight makes him uncomfortable or something.  I am a small small girl but still i.e. if I am laying on top of him or something.  But I love it, I am an affectionate person, I always want to touch him, lol

martyfellow · Answer

Cuddling is so warm, and can either be consoling, friendly, or sexy, depending! No one ever forgets cuddling.  Kisses, maybe, but not cuddling.

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