My boyfriend says that I am ugly--why ?!! And am I !?

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He is the only one who says this but WHY ! And if so. Am I ? I want to put a link of a pic but am level one so I may comment one but Ilook like this: Caucasion skin hazel eyes blond normal lips (littel big) Hot pink color am thin (not too much) normal nose not big not small littel acne my eyebrows have a fine shape I don't put a lot of make up (I almost never put) so wht do you think am I really ugly :( ? Why he is saying this ?!

Thank you ! ??

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Guys nd Girls :D #1 thNXxX about Allll The advices #2 we had a fight yesturday and we almost break up #3 we didn't :P #4 today we was both onlline on f.b we wasn't talking so I asked him " say somthing am here " he said OK I will say what inside of my heart you are So Beautiful I was like REALLY ?! I AM lOl he said sure you are -- I almost cry when he told me this THNXxX To You

and I would love to choose a best answer but I need help So if you can Vote for one

ThnNxXxXxX Again :DD

[tigerdave]

i agree so much with frostie. ask him and if he can't be honest about his feelings he won't be honest in other areas too. you can't "make" a person honest. if he isn't honest he isn't worth much. that's why I've always respected and gravitated towards "tough love" people. they are honest and therefore real.

it may be he isn't honest with himself and if he can't do that he can't be honest with anyone else either. honesty and openness are the keys to a healthy relationship, and just because you may be open and honest doesn't mean the other is also

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Did you read the comments ?

If you didn't .. Then do :)

[Frostie]

You can 'define' yourself. But that doesn't mean we'll know if we find you attractive or not. Probably to make you feel bad, Idk, why don't you ask him. If you can't get an honest answer, then don't waste your time with him. Either that or he has a low self esteem and that he is with you because you are the best he can get. which may or may not be true. This is all assumption/guess work. To many possibilities to give an accurate response. My advice, go ask him.

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"Huni Why do you think am ugly ?" I once did this and he get so angry and answer "coz I think this " he is so complicated to understand / and yeah .. He can get any girl he want he is so popular and handsome he always say ""Raghad, (my name) I don't want a beautiful girl I want one who "Accommodate"Me " so wht do you think now ? Pleas help

[Frostie]

He is bad at bullsh*tting. If he can get any girl, than what's his problem, why lower standards. what 'accommodation' does he receive. Sure maybe he gets laid, but what chick wouldn't if he is so 'popular' and 'hot'. I believe he suffers from a low self esteem. I wouldn't waste my time. If not that, then a form of emotional manipulation.

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He is (for sure ) Not playing with me the truth is we will get engaged without our families know he want to do this to show me that he is serious he used to "use" girls then dump them but its not Gonna happen with me He says am different and he is sick of sh*t relationship I believe we really love each others (sry because am asking to much it's rude)

[Frostie]

Sounds like a bad relationship. Lying to your families doesn't make things better. Just means both of you are irresponsible. Do what you want, but mock my words when I say things will back fire and turn out for the worst.

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Thank You ! (I thought them same ) but I always say I have to Sacrifice

In love thnxXXXx you helped Alot

[Frostie]

Sacrifice.. only if it is mutual and both are giving the same amount into the relationship, never give more than you are being given in return.

[gucciblack]

Look hunny, if he was a true caring loving boyfriend, someone who cares about your feelings? He would never say that! By saying that his putting your self esteem and confidence down!

I don't know how your relationship is, but girl that ain't a real boyfriend!

If you were "ugly" why the hell would someone be with a girl they're not attracted to? Don't get me wrong babe, every girl is beautiful in their own way.

Sorry to say, his a prick! And you deserve better :)

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Thank you !

[Frostie]

If I didn't assume you were a girl qucci, I'd assume you were hitting on her with 'honey' 'babe' etc.

Bit disrespectful in some ways. In either case, I wouldn't go blowing smoke up someones ass unless you know them very well and that they do indeed 'deserve better'. Self esteem comes from the self. That is where everyone else's opinion has no value as to what you think of yourself, unless it is constructive criticism to better yourself. Either way, he probably has no self esteem.

[gucciblack]

Im a girl lmaooo

Telling your own girlfriend she's ugly? seriously?

[Prettygurl12]

No girl deserves to be with a man who tells her she's ugly. Just like no man deserves to be with a girl who insults his masculinity. You sound fine to me. He's an immature little boy yet. They don't mature for a few more years. I'd get out of that relationship. If you feel he's not treating you right (if he makes you feel bad about yourself, then he's not treating you right) then you need to leave and find someone who appreciates you for you.

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thnxxxx :))

[BehindTheFront]

He is saying this because he is a insecure a**hole ! DUMP HIM !

If my boyfriend says I'm ugly, I consider talking after I broke his nose..

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you are a tough girl ! I think you should take it easy a littel bit more

[BehindTheFront]

I just don't let a man think he has some kind of power on me, I respect myself !

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Even if you love him to death (even he do) !??

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[BehindTheFront]

I probably protect myself too much to fall in love again soon !

He may love you, you may love him. But he seems to put pressure on you, scaring you to get what he wants.. I don't like that kind of guy, and you shouldn't..

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Did you see the update ?

[BehindTheFront]

You're so naive hon ..

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Trust me if you staid liKe this you won't be in a real relationship you have to Sacrifice and it looks like this is something you can't do sry 4u I don't want to be rude but stop saying such as these sh*ts sry again

[BehindTheFront]

And if you sacrifice too much, it won't be a "real" relationship either !

[Anonymous]

Sounds a bit of a d*** tbh. He could be trying to knock your confidence so you feel that you couldn't do any better than him. Without knowing him though its hard to say, but in all fairness no one should tell anyone they're ugly whether they do think it or not.

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I thought the same lol -am with you thanks !

[Opinion Owner]

Looking at the link I'd say its probably insecurities on his behalf. My friend is the same with his girlfriend (says different things) and he's admitted that its because he thinks she's too good for him and will leave him when a better guy comes along. Don't let it get to you

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Thanks A lot :D

[Anonymous]

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It's not working :/ I don't know Y !

[Opinion Owner]

maybe it works this way: desdecuba com / generationy _ de / wp- content / upoads / 2009 / 11 / barack _ obama . jpg

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Thankssssssss

[Opinion Owner]

no, you are NOT ugly. you have beautiful eyes and full lips. you look very feminine. I guess he tells you you are ugly because you have acne/don't wear makeup. your acne will go away, don't worry.

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Thank you :D

[Dragan]

If he think you're ugly, then why he with you? Inappropriate behavior indeed.

[masug]

then punch him in the face smash his head pay a hitman to kill him do everything you want to make him stop

[masug]

if is the only one maybe is jealous you don't gave him enough atention

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I don't talk to other guys (he don't let me ) I do give him A lot of attention but there is one problem we both under 18 (not under16) and he want sex I always say no I don't think he say am ugly cous I don't want sex it's really hard to understand him I often cry a lot when he hurt me :( but although he hurt me we still love each others :(((

[Anonymous]

your boyfriend is right.you re really ugly