SO here's the deal. Sometimes a girl just happens to be introducing you to her friends -- you might have things in common, since she likes YOU and she obviously likes her friends... Other times she's on the fence about you and wants a "vote" from her friends, especially if you've been going out for a bit.
A GIRL WHO LIKES A GUY (for dating): I just met a guy and about a week after our first date I mistakenly asked if he wanted to "join" me and my friends for a day trip. He said no, but offered to spend one-on-one time with me another day. I was wracking my brain trying to figure out what turned him off -- figuring he just wasn't interested -- but then a friend pointed out that shoving him at my friends after only one date was sort of like a fraternity prank. (I hadn't thought of that. It's just that I liked him and know that his edgy sense of humor is similar to the two other people coming with.) I just wanted to enjoy time with the guy and with two friends I haven't gotten to see this summer; I don't have a lot of free time, so I just made the mental connection without too much thought. Sigh. Live and learn.
A GIRL WHO LIKES A GUY (for her Friendzone): The other possible misconception is that she is introducing you to her pals so you can join the ranks. Not usually the place most guys want to be, but sometimes this works out for the best.
A GIRL WITH MIXED FEELINGS: There's you...there's her...and there's the universe. Depending on how much she values her friends' judgement, she may really need you to "pass muster" by spending the day with them or something. There used to be a TV show called "My Boys" -- the girl had her on poker posse (consisting of her brother, her ex, her crush, and one random dork). Her very girlie best friend warms her repeatedly NEVER to invite a new guy (dating interest) to poker night because the posse with tear apart any guy who shows up (like bear cubs on National Geographics!). Eventually, she ends up with one of the guys in the group because those are the only people who "pass muster" with everyone -- including the girlie bestie. It's not settling, but accepting what you like...and in fact love... about yourself and your friends. It's a take-it-or-leave-it sort of deal.
DOES SHE LIKE YOU? IDK. It depends on which of these categories she (and you) fall into...
depends on the situation, if the girl has only causally mentioned she thinks your cute or has an interest her friends might not do much more than try to see who you are, but if the girl is really into you then they might try to talk her up to you, it all depends on what the girl wants and how well these girls know you or feel comfortable around you. she also could be shy and told them not to say anything
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