In high school, guys will compete over a handful of girls because they aren't really interested in dating yet. They want attention from good looking girls and they want to look good to other guys. So if all the other guys want a certain girl, they will at least mildly entertain the idea of being the one to get her and to beat out all the other guys.
That being said, a lot of nice people who opt out of the popularity contest end up getting to know each other and having nice relationships. It's the same as with the really good looking guys at your school -- most girls might find them physically attractive, but not all of them will actively pursue him or even want to do so.
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In the high school popularity matters a lot.
You can be attractive, but if you are unpopular no one will look your way.
You can be soso looking or even ugly, but has long has you are popular, you will get plenty of attention, followers and a lot of the guys.
Social status brings people far in high school.
They don't make those high school flicks for no reason, haha.
The immaturity of certain teenagers during that stage in life ridiculous.
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Guys go after the popular girls.
When one guy was going after me then other guys noticed me also and started going after me just because the other guy was pursuing me.
It's normal. Guys are not too bright sometimes because obviously they are going to be disappointed when they get rejected. Guys set themselves up for rejection and then they complain about it.
It's a very simple minded thing, but alas people ARE simple minded.
being popular means jack sh*t when you get to a certain age. I don't care whether a girl is popular or not. I am 30 now, what matters to me is a few good friends than a 1000 fake friends. also at my age I have come too realize the more friends you have, the more hassle it is.
i don't care whether a girl is popular or not. it is what she is like as a person that's counts, not her status.
Most guys really don't care about status, that being said, a lot of the most popular girls are also the best looking, which is what most guys are looking for. That's not to say average looking girls can't get a boyfriend in high school, but that they have to be more proactive in approaching guys and showing interest.
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No.. popularity matters to only those guys who seek attention themselves. And if you want to know what kind of girls a guy would go for, then I would say it depends on whatmood/ phase a guy is in. we tend to go for beautiful and sexy at first then most of us realize that inner beauty is what matters more. some stick to that and some go back looking for the sexy and beautiful..
No.
Girls care about status.
Guys care about looks, and use status to get better looking partners.
However, girls intuitively know this, and female popularity tends to be skewed based on looks.When you get older you begin to realize everything you thought that mattered in high school, doesn't. And no, status does not matter.
Precisely what anony down there said. Highschool is a congregation of useless, pathetic f***s. Don't form any kind of life opinions there.
I couldn't even name who the most popular girls at my school were (and I knew almost everyone in my grad class by name). To me, no it does not.
No it does not.
High school is the last place to form opinions on the behavior of guys, so don't worry about it.It works both ways, but girls have a tendency to not even give a chance to someone more than guys. Honestly it should not matter, but its the way we have been raised as society to judge other people.
it is normal for like 8th graders but no doesn't matter
no I don't think it does , but high school boysthink the other way
NO.
The guys' responses here are spot on.it doesn't make a difference to me
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