Noooo! That's bad. What I do is gently place my hand on the girl's hips or shoulder and get her attention to me so I can talk or whatever (no tapping on shoulder! That's so bad too).
But generally, it's hard to meet new girls in clubs where the music is so loud.1 1 0 0this should be the way. it would be way more effective as well :P
If you get defensive by that then the bar/club is not for you, sorry lol. Its for people who are open to all types of fun.
I get my *ss touched by girls and guys and I don't mind. Plus you really can't talk in bars and clubs these days, music is too loud.0 0 2 1I don't mean defensive as in scared or angry, but it doesn't make me attracted to the guy and I would be less keen to say hi to him myself, especially as these guys don't talk to you themselves :s
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So annoying. Only works if the guy is like really hot which they never are so I usually just hit them and call them rude.
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0 5If it weren't for the bouncer, more guys would do this. Given the way girls behave and dress in clubs, touching their behind is the most appropriate way to say hello to them!
0 1 2 1They're most likely drunk, and don't realize what they're doing is wrong...don't let it bother you, the chances of you seeing them again, is one in 7 billion
0 0 0 0it might not pay off but there's low risk of serious consequences
0 0 0 0Well it's a good way to get slapped, but I personally just come up to the girl and introduce myself if I find her attractive I don't grab on their ass, kinda disrespectful, because I wouldn't want anyone to do that to my friends or such
1 1 0 0Because it works well
0 0 0 1Haha seriously? I mean, sure, if the girls drunk I can see it working, but otherwise I've never seen that work for a guy :P
They get all giggly and happy ;p
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