My boyfriend does not want to meet my parents, why?
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. I have already met all of his family, but 3 days ago when I asked him to meet mine he said it...
Most Helpful Guy
you need to talk to your brother and your boyfriend. Tell your Boyfriend your brother doesn't need to apologize for doing what a brother is supposed to do. Tell your brother that although this guy cheated on you, you want him to give him a chance.
All that said, your boyfriend needs to man up. He made a mistake in the past and now he thinks that since you forgave him all is well. He needs to establish a relationship and trust with your family not vice versa. He needs to put himself in the uncomfortable position of your family. It is the only way things will only get better between him and the fam.
What Guys Said 6
Your boyfriend is an a**hole, first for cheating and second for being a p**** and demanding your brother apologize for sticking up for you. You were right to kick him to the curb.
ya you are rght, he got no self esteem/
gues so,.. what if he cannot make right with your family memberss how would thinhs go well later,. may be , he's not reaaly into it or doesn love you truely. on the contrary, if he really love's you why not he can't , and what's so abot the mail, can't he forgive fro a single, silly stufs,.. for me, you did the right choice.
Why don't you ask him? Maybe he is very hesitant to mess up, other problems. Ask him.
What Girls Said 2
Your boyfriend needs to learn to respect your family. He made a mistake and he should LOVE that your brother is protecting you. Your boyfriend's causing problems.
You made the right choice. If your boyfriend loves you, he will try to work it out with your family. He should want you happy.
Your boyfriend shouldn't be mad at the fact that your brother sent him that email. If anything, he somewhat deserved it at the moment, I mean come on, lets get real he cheated on you. I don't know what world your boyfriend is living in, but an apology doesn't seem fit in this situation seeing that he put himself in this position. I think if your boyfriend really cared though, he would put everything behind him for the time being and at least being cordial with him when meeting your parents. The fact that he's being sort of cold towards you for wanting him to, really doesn't make any sense. I say talk to him about it. Really, a problem such as little as this shouldn't even be a problem.
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