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Why do women make poor choices?

I know this questions gets asked a lot, but I'm asking it again anyway. Why do women make poor choices in guys? Virtually every girl I've known has... Show More

I guess I should've put a disclaimer that said: ATTENTION ALL FEMALES. I AM NOT BITCHING, JUST SEEKING A COMPELLING DEBATE ON MY QUESTION. But if I did, I'd be catching flack for singling out females in the disclaimer. Seems you can't ask a question anymore without someone bringing out the stereotype card. Sad...

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  • Oh, cry me a river. Men make the same sh*tty choices, theyre just not judged the same. One of my friends even admitted this to me, saying he always whines when a girl prefers a certain type of guy that he deems "less than" but then he turns around and always "picks the wrong type of girl." it seems like a two way street, but men seem to be less honest about it, in my experience.

    women are human beings just like men. we all make sh*tty choices for the same variety of reasons, it doesn't change based on sex.

    and who is at fault? you're blaming women for doing the same things that men do? O.o

    okay 1. I love the sexist stereotypical picture youve painted of women in their 30s vs men being in shape and financially stable lmao that's really funny.

    and 2. you're not very logical yourself if you don't understand why after experiencing what is perceived to be negative, people look for something opposite...if a kid burns their hand on the stove badly, its not likely that they will do it again. or at some point you come to realize that the decisions youve made aren't what you want anymore, wouldn't you logically choose to go in a different direction? what DONT you understand about that?

    ah, I see. lets just call this what it is - you want younger women. period. be honest, I hate when men bullsh*t to try to make their actions seem any more logical than they are. same honest guy I mentioned above admitted the same thing. he had some wealthy, apparently gorgeous woman in her 30s totally on his nut sack, wanted his kids, they watched football together, and everything. he was in the same age group and said he didn't want to date her because she was exactly one or 2 years older and how he thinks he just wants a younger woman because of physical attraction. even though other men thought this woman was gorgeous and she had wealthier men and models coming after her. he wasn't employed either, he was living on government assistance from his military service. at least he was honest though.

    its so funny when people think theyre being logical, but really aren't and just use that word to boost their emotional expression of frustration. considering the fact that people are getting married much later and more and more women aren't having children until their 30s, there's not much logic to your argument. you seem to be illogically basing your argument on, again, a sexist, stereotypical picture of women. that, and there's probably a class element here and sex bias. I don't think women in their 30s are less attractive at all, but if you're looking for someone who looks 19, that's probably your issue. why try to apply the label of logic where there is none. finding women who have not been married and don't have children in their 30s is really not hard these days. More people on both sides take better care of themselves as they age these days as well. But if you want someone who looks fresh out of high school or college, that's probably what it comes down to, more often than not.

    • and its more honest to talk about why men like younger women. there's a manipulation factor, an ego boost that comes with it especially once you hit the late 20s/early 30s mark, an attraction to naivety and the belief in the idea of "no baggage" or "a better attitude", or liking a certain ego-boosting personality or attitude that comes with some girls at a younger age for older men. That's being honest. But if we're just bullsh*tting, then sure, its because most women make bad decisions. sure.

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    • women and men don't make too many different decisions. two people get married, two people get divorced, two people have children. it doesn't make sense, to me, to point the finger at women and make this a womens issue and talk about who is to blame "who is at fault" if both are doing the same thing. what part of that don't you understand? I can't answer that question. I don't believe women make especially different decisions than men do. They are just judged differently for those decisions.

    • But its okay. No offense, but I'm not getting the sense that you are the type of person who can easily comprehend the point I'm trying to make, much less agree with it. Different types of people. Carry on.

What Girls Said 5

  • Well if that's the case then I'm most definitely not the norm

  • Girls like bad boys because they want something to tame. The idea of turning a bad guy "good" is irresistible to most women because it shows their own values projected onto another person and turning the bad guy good would make them "indebted" in a way so they'd have to love you, etc. Women are strange and yes I say this being one. Some women call good guys boring just because they don't present a challenge emotionally. by the way, don't call women out on their bad choices, that's immediately going to get you 10 steps backwards. How would you like it if women started harping on you for your sh*t?Just because you can provide a reasonable answer and they don't doesn't make it right. Just be the good guy that you are and the right women will notice you, I promise. Just put yourself out there and it should be even better for you cause you're better than the a**hole guys. So stop bitching and get to work, you're a good guy, you just need to find the right woman.

  • Bad boys make our ovaries do back flips. But men make bad choices also. I saw a guy recently do the stupidest thing ruled by his little head. He is paying for it at the moment dearly. It is interesting seeing how he will get out of the hole he has dug himself into. I am just sitting back and watching it all unfold. It is amusing me. Silly boy/man.

  • Grow a pair. Males do the same dumb sh*t. You go for the good looking trouble making bad girl. It's just guys aren't going "where's all the good girls" afterward. And not to mention you call girls sluts if you rejected.

What Guys Said 3

  • Because women are driven by their feelings compared to guys who thinks logically... many realized afterward but most don't ..

  • Because most of them choose guys with the emotional side of their brain, instead of the logical side.

  • Women are certainly FAMOUS for making bad choices in men especially when they are younger! In fact, many women seem to go out of their way to get with the WORST MEN THEY CAN FIND! On this, there's no equality! Women are UNIQUE that way!

    The whole bad boy-jerk appeal thing exposes part of women's bad choice problems. It appears to be a matter of instinct/emotion over good sense! Women are strongly attracted to signs of strength! Thus, the loud, pushy, insensitive arrogance of bad boy-jerks, drug dealers, thugs, gangsters and sundry criminals triggers female mating attraction instincts. As a result, we constantly see women flocking to the scum of society.

    Google "Dark Triad Personalities" (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy) and you'll find a ton of material on how women are attracted to evil personality traits. The "Dark Triad" evil personality traits constantly turn up in the bad boys, jerks and assholes that are popular with women. This pretty much explains why so many women make poor choices in men. They see what they perceive as male strength and can't help but find it manly and attractive. VIOLENCE IS SEXY TO WOMEN! To an extent, some men are attractive BECAUSE they are abusive! Not in spite of it!

    There are also many women who actually look to PRISON INMATES for love interest! Many prisons receive a huge volume of love letters for inmates. There's a website called "prisontalk. com" that links communications between nearly half a million members. Some prison wives met their incarcerated husbands on the PrisonTalk network. The network includes sections devoted to love correspondence and prison weddings! We're talking about women INTENTIONALLY CHOOSING SERIOUS CONVICTED CRIMINALS FOR LOVE AND MARRIAGE!


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