I wrote a letter to let out my feelings but I don't think I would give it to him. I mean who really reads letters from the person who broke up with... Show More
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Writing out your feelings is a form of expression and it sounds like you hope that something will click, he will apologize and then you will regain the relationship.
Everyone is different and what hurts you may not hurt someone else and that means that understanding your pain is different than accepting that you are IN pain. So if someone this guy cared about called him a pig, it might not effect him at all. So even if he had the same experience, it might not have an effect and relating to him your perspective most likely won't have any effect either.
I was dating this girl once and I thought things were going well, then one day she just broke up with me. Upon further inquiry, I found out that her excuse was that she didn't like my face. That hurt me quite deeply at the time, so because of that experience, I can relate to how yours would make you feel and I could understand why you would be hurt. It still wouldn't really tell me exactly how much it hurt you.
If telling him that what he said hurt you isn't enough, then it's unlikely you will see any positive response from him.