I think there was something bothering him about the relationship. He bottled it up inside, hoping to get over it, or for you to realize that it bothered him. But it never happened. And so he tried to get back at you, or get you "upset". I guess in an immature way, he was trying to get your attention. He wanted you to see how he was feeling.
When he said he doesn't know what he wants, I think he really meant that he doesn't know how to handle this, and howto be honest about his feelings.
It might have something to do with you going out. Maybe it bothered him, but he didn't want to sound "controlling" so he kept it to himself.
The fact that it didn't bother you when HE spent time with his friends, bothered him even more, because he thinks, you don't feel the same way he does.
That is just my assumption based on your story.
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He's probably going through things that happened in his lifetime.
You shouldn't blame yourself since it wasn't your fault. He's immature and I agree with some of the users that answered this question that he's insecure as well.
Simply move on you'll do allot better without him.
you probably didn't do anything, sounds to me like he's imature and insecure about himself.
Only you know what you did? how did you not support him what was happening in his life that you did not support him with?How did you not respect him did you say bad things behind his back?
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