Here's some good advice... "keep it simple stupid"
You will get over your fear if you face it head on, but realize you don't have to do it all at once. Start small. Say "hi (her name here)" and smile. Be genuine and listen to her answer. Don't wait for it to get awkward just keep moving on. Trust me, girls get excited when a cute guy says "Hi" especially if he smiles.
After that, if she likes you she will be the one constantly thinking about you. Then next time you run into her... just do it again. Become her friend first. Don't worry about all the other sh*t that comes with a relationship. If it's meant to be that will come. Stay in control... when the balls in your court, be nice and be genuine. Then the ball will be in her court.
After a few interactions you will be able to tell if she is interested or not. If she is interested, then ask her to hangout some time. If she isn't interested, move on to the next girl.
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It's quite understandable that you freeze. However, if you don't overcome this, you might not get a girl forever.
Try talking to a councilor, experienced friend or family about it. I honestly can't stand shy guys. I am really blunt and I can't deal with guys that are painfully awkward and shy.
work on yourself more, learn to love yourself and be proud of who you are.
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