Why do people say you have to let the girl find you, let her come to you, that you should stop looking for one?
Also, when people say other phrases or quotes like "You just have to let it happen naturally" "Good things come to those who wait" "If you want a... Show More
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Don't overanalyze things, I for one pick men who are easy-going... and you are right some of those sayings are really outdated! When I was reading those I was thinking about the 1940's where a boy asks a girl to split a Coke and talk to the soda jerk. This is the main part that people get wrong: dating follows a law of "don't ask, don't get." If you don't ask a girl out, you won't get her to date you. Dating is risk taking, I hate to say it shy fellas, but it really is. Take it from me, I ask men out a lot because I realize that you should never let a good thing slip through your fingers.Get out there and ask some hot chicks out!
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10% of all the men get 90% of all the women :DAnd why's that?Because the other 90% of men are to caught up in all these fairy tales theories, no balls and a passive lifestyle that leads them nowhere so they eventually just "put up" with a girl who's not their first choice.So don't take advice from those losers that date ugly women because they can't get anything better.Check out link to get some real stuff going on lol.
You're thinking way, way, way too much. We've all got caught up in thinking too much about dating, because there's so much contradictory advice. But here's my suggestion to save your sanity:If you like a girl, ask her out. Show interest. But don't ask her out more than twice -- if she's interested, she'll make time for you. If she gives you too much grief, DO NOT try to "outplay" her, because you'll make yourself crazy. So if she jerks you around, simply move on. There are tons of great women out there, and there's no need to date one who makes you jump through an endless series of hoops. Remember: talk is cheap, but behavior is gold. Pay LESS attention to her words, and MORE attention to her behavior. So if she's a little playful and coy -- but she's ALSO seeing you and making time for you -- her behavior says she's interested. But if it's nothing but games, maybes, and I-don't-knows, cut your loses and move on. Good luck.