How do shy guys flirt?
i find it difficult enough already to find out wether a guy like me or not. so how do I know if a shy guy likes me?
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We basically, as has been stated, don't.
The only thing I can think of that I do is to be in her line of vision and trying to stand somewhat near to her; no where near next to her but somewhere if she were to turn her head a little she would see me (if I couldn't be in her line of vision or if I were too nervous to be in the line of vision).
And we don't give eye contact unless for a split second, if you catch us red handed. When you aren't looking at us, we are looking at you (yeah, sounds kinda creepy).
Basically we do everything that shy girls do ...and it's absolute hell being shy.
We are constantly waiting for you to approach us or say something, anything, to start the conversation (mind you - you have to keep it going also & we would love it if you were to ask us for our numbers).
Mind you, if the guy isn't interested he's also not likely to keep the conversation going, so it's a very thin line between being interested and not interested; hopefully you can read the small signals correctly. And if we aren't interested we'll still give out our numbers, even though we don't want to (we are just being polite) so you'll have to watch his body language closely.
What Guys Said 3
We don't flirt, but if we really like you then we'll try being your friend. Girls often respond to this by saying they want to be JUST friends, usually crushing our hopes and dreams. I'm not saying it's the girls' fault - I'm just saying it happens.
Guys who approach girls without making it clear that they want to be more than friends, usually end up staying as friends forever, with the girl being unable to see them as anything else.
Usually guys who flirt make it IMMEDIATELY obvious that they're interested in the girl. That's why girls are more likely to respond to that and see them in an attractive way. Shy guys don't do that.
Shy guys will start being nice to the girl and being friendly with her, and eventually if they feel it's safe and the time is right, they'll tell her they like her. So basically if a guy feels like talking with you a lot of the time, or asks you to hang out with him and is basically being kinda friendly overall, there's a high chance he likes you.
are you going after good looking guys or unworthy unattractive ones like us?
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