Why don't I want a relationship?

[Lknsgtn]

Hey everyone !

So lately I've been wondering, and kind of been concerned about why I don't want to be in a relationship ?

I've been on so many dates with guys I'm really attracted to, yet I don't feel any connection with them, it's like I don't have any emotions anymore, I feel empty.

It's been over a year I've been single, and usually I'm the type of girl who falls in love every 5 minutes, I don't understand what's going on.

Maybe it's the fact that I've seen things that a guy has done to my best friend and I don't trust guys anymore, there has to be a reason !

All I feel like doing is partying and having fun, but when it comes to guys I feel so so so empty, and I'm scared that I'm becoming one of those people who are scared of commitment, and that's not me at all, like I said I'm a very emotionnal girl and I ALWAYS have a crush on someone, but right now I just love being single, I don't understand ! HELP !

Has anyone been through this before ? I want to find someone I truly care about, but something is holding me back and I don't know what it is...

Thanks !

[discreet]

i think you answered your own question already..

" right now I just love being single " yepp..

babe, you already know what a relationship is, you've been in one before, you know what it takes, emotionally, the commitement etc..

that's not in your cards rt know apparently, so go out have as many friends as you want, enjoy people you want to share your time with, ohh.. and have a bad ass time doing it!

it's time for you to enjoy and share who you are as an individual, it will happen again though, when you least expect it. have funn

[privatehelp01]

because your young right now and you need to go have fun and just date dont settle right now, just date guys and enjoy them and hang with friends and have fun with them, foucs on buliding a future for yourself and eventually when your old enough you'll find the man of your dreams and settle down and you'll be happy :)

[Anonymous]

For some reason, it's important for you to "find yourself" or focus on you, that's my opinion. Maybe you just need to forget about relationships for a while and focus on what you want, like, need, feel.. and all that good stuff.

[thissitesucks]

Fear commitment and rejection and being hurt. You just haven't gotten over the fear. The only way to face your fear. Face it head on. Just try it and see what happens. You'll be single the rest of your life if you don't. Do you honestly want that?

[Anonymous]

Because you don't need a guy. It happens.