Would it matter?
Yes it would, since apologizing is essentially about feeling regretful for doing something wrong or for hurting someone's feelings. In which case, it would show me that he cares about my feelings and respects me enough to apologize when he does something that hurts me. It's basic manners. When you do something stupid, you apologize.
Would you forgive him?
That depends completely on the situation and what he did.
Would you care?
Yes, I would care. As I said, apologizing means that you care. If he doesn't care about me, I'd be even more hurt. So I do care.
Would you just see it (?) and continue ignoring him?
It also depends on the situation and what he did exactly. If he was absolutely horrible towards me, then yes I would continue ignoring him regardless if he apologized or not. If he said something that really hurt but apologized straight away and really showed me that he cared, then yes, I think I'd forgive him depending on what he did. However, there's a chance I might ignore him for a little while just to let myself cool down from it all and take a little break from seeing him and talking to him.
It entirely depends on how good of an apology it was, what he did, if the quality of the apology matched the hurt of what he said, whether or not I was in a forgiving mood, and of course, whether or not I was over whatever it is he said to hurt me in the first place.
He can have an awesome apology that surpasses the transgression, I can be completely over what happened, but if I happen to be in a pissy mood that day there's no way I'm accepting it lol and it'll just make me more mad (supercharge my "mad supply" lol) and he'll have to apologize again.
It's cause I'm crazy :p
But my boyfriend of six years finally figured out my pattern (darn) so if he gets me on a bad day his next apology goes something like this, "I already said I was sorry. Now get over it and quite acting like a bitch with a bee up her ass." Then he leaves me alone to sulk till I convince myself to get over it hahaha.
But in most cases, yes, an apology is nice. It shows he recognizes that what he did upset/hurt her.
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anyone can say they are sorry, just like anyone can say I love you. Words mean nothing if the actions don't match. Us women know when an "I'm sorry" is sincere or not. We rarely listen to words, we look at the action, body language... those my friend tell the true story. So if it's a sincere apology, it does matter to us and we will not continue to ignore you. If she is still ignoring you, she is still pissed.
If its sincere then yeah. I also understand some guys say stupid things all the time and that others have no filter because they are socialized that way. It would also matter on what they did , because there are certain offenses that I never forgive some people for.
It's always really brave when a guy apologizes. And I would always forgive a guy just because he had the courage to come up and admit he was wrong. :-)
YES!! it means a lot because it shows you care about what she thinks!!
yes it shows that he cares
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