I'm 25, she's 17. She's definitely attractive so I know what guys are thinking when they see her because I was her age. And I've caught guys checking out, kids as young as 13ish all the way to those old enough to be our grandfather. And yeah, it pisses me off. Doesn't help that she shows a significant amount of cleavage and wears yoga pants. It does upset me because I'm afraid that it will give off the wrong impression of her and that she's looking for attention for the wrong reasons. But she's 17. She's not going to listen to her brother. I worry how she'll be when I move 1,000 miles away in a few months. And then she's moving away to college herself in a year so my mom won't be around to be there for her.
But I will say this, I would never let my daughter wear clothes that most kids wear today. I'd let her dress fashionably but no way would I want her to wear something that makes her boobs or butt stand out.
If my sister is comfortable wearing revealing clothes and she looks hot in them, I'd be happy about it too. What's there to feel awkward or uncomfortable about it?
Yes I sure do if I like something she's wearing and am as good with saying if I don't too :D but not liking something is not about her wearing something that shows skin
And ofcourse I care. I won't want her wearing something that is out of place for an occasion or something that looks weird. I'd tell her so but not force her to change or stuff.
I don't have a sister, but if I had, and if she wore revealing clothes, I'd tell her to go change (I'm the bigger sister, of course). I won't have her running around out there with half her boobs or half her buttcheeks hanging out. I wouldn't want some perv to decide it's OK to molest her because she dresses invitingly.
I have a little sister. She's like 8 and she doesn't realize what she is wearing isn't that appropriate so I just politely tell her she should change and why she should change and she usually listens unless my mom is there and tells her that her outfit is fine and to ignore me.
I have two younger sisters and if they ever wore revealing clothes then they'd probably get a sound verbal thrashing and I'd lock them up in their rooms. But they are quite responsible and since we follow a religion I doubt they'll ever wear revealing clothes.
When I was in High School my older brother would make sarcastic remarks if he thought I was wearing something revealing. Now that I'm an adult, he doesn't say anything.
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well... i mean it really depends on what society expects from guys. If that society expects guys to be protective then yes guys will interfere. But If society call guys controlling and that she is responsible for what she does and what happens to her then the guy wouldn't interfere.
The problem is when society blames guys for interfering and then the sister comes back running crying to him after she got molested. Asking him to go beat a guy up or something.
My sister never wore revealing clothes.
yes i care
yes it is my business. especially if she's younger than me. cuz i'm the one driving her places and be responsible as an elder sibling.
yes it makes me uncomfortable, and i need to protect my sister, why is she attracting the wrong guys.
yes i might, but i wouldn't comment negatively often even if it does look bad. i dont want to sound so pushy and want to tell her in the nicest way.
if i dont care about my sister wear revealing clothes, what difference is she to my gf/wife?
no, my sister would not be used. how would i feel if someone beat up my sister? well, it's time to take out the shotgun. same reason, how would i feel if someone used my sister sexually? so then.. ahem, why dress that way.
no, i dont want her to dress like Miley.. but like Emma Watson. same answer to whether she smokes or takes drug.
by the way i dont have a sister :)
I bothers me however she is an adult and nobody can make decision for her.
i would care
i face the same problem with my fiancee, she hates when i comment and she never gets why its uncomfortable for me!!
she thinks its all about "jealous, control, anger" problem.
i wonder why would i choose to show my body parts to feel confident, hot or to get attention!!
sounds cheap!
I don't have a sister but two brothers. I mostly wear jeans and hoodies so my brothers don't worry about what I wear. The only thing they question is that when I leave the house I always got a hat on.
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but now seriously
if i had a sister i would care about her well being
it's none of my business
depends on how revealing
don't have one
lets say, as long as it isn't sluty revealing I would be cool with it
don't have a sister, but if I did, I wouldn't care about it if she was older than me.
If she was younger I'd explain some things about guys to her. Then I'd let her decide.
Dad says it ain't right cuzz it makes other men look at her and she's are'n.
I felt bothered. I asked her not to wear such clothes.
She didn't listen.
I absolutely hate the way my sister and mother dress.
I don't want to look at them. I don't know why I have to be with these kind of women. I don't know why I was given birth by "her".
I have lost respect for women and I don't even want a girlfriend or anything.
Yeah I would care but I would not say anything to her. My parents would take care of that.
I don't wear revealing clothes in public but my brother freaks when I wear tights in the house.
I think it's her responsibility. She can wear whatever makes her feel comfortable just like a guy can. I don't think it's my business.
Its 2014. I won't care unless someone stalk them. I dont just look big :-p I dont even have sisters tho ha. I am js in that case
i dont have a sister, but if i did, i wouldn't like it
Generally, no.
None of my business.
No. No.
No. Unless she asks me to.
Time to get out the big stick
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