There's this girl that I've been talking to a lot lately. We are currently living in different cities, but she is moving back next month and we already have a few plans to hang out, many of which she asked for/organized.
Anyway, we text a lot. We talk pretty much every day but every couple of weeks she will go cold and will take forever to reply, when she does it doesn't really leave the conversation for much to go on. Then after a couple of days of this she will text me a ton again.
She was like this for a couple of days and then she sent me like 5 texts one of which was asking about going to a concert this summer.
Today she started texting me first, but then took forever to respond and it didn't really go anywhere.
I really do think she likes me, but she will occasionally go hot and cold and it makes me really self conscious and worried that I am doing something wrong. And during these times I try not to text her too much or anything so I don't bother her and I'm worried that she may take that as me not being interested if I go too long without texting her.
How should I handle when she is like this? It just feels awkward to talk to her during those times but she will still send me snapchats, pins etc. She starts about 50% of the conversations, so it's not just me sending her stuff and her responding.
Advice?
Anyway, we text a lot. We talk pretty much every day but every couple of weeks she will go cold and will take forever to reply, when she does it doesn't really leave the conversation for much to go on. Then after a couple of days of this she will text me a ton again.
She was like this for a couple of days and then she sent me like 5 texts one of which was asking about going to a concert this summer.
Today she started texting me first, but then took forever to respond and it didn't really go anywhere.
I really do think she likes me, but she will occasionally go hot and cold and it makes me really self conscious and worried that I am doing something wrong. And during these times I try not to text her too much or anything so I don't bother her and I'm worried that she may take that as me not being interested if I go too long without texting her.
How should I handle when she is like this? It just feels awkward to talk to her during those times but she will still send me snapchats, pins etc. She starts about 50% of the conversations, so it's not just me sending her stuff and her responding.
Advice?
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