Guys honestly are you more impressed with girls who fawn over you or girls who clearly like you but are not fawning?

[Anonymous]

Would you prefer girls who run after you and throw themselves at you or would you prefer a girl who clearly likes you and is fun but isn't throwing herself at you? There is this guy I find him very sexy but I don't know what I think of his personality. When I see him I am chatty and friendly and joke around and we hit it off but I don't fawn over him or act like my world is him or run up to him every second. Do guys prefer this? I thought guys like girls who are interested but not desperate unless they want sex only.

[janine167]

From what I have seen guys don't really care.
But, if he likes her and she doesn't fawn all over him he will make more effort to pursue her. If he is the type of guy that always has guys all over him then he might get attracted the girl that doesn't fawn all over him.

[bubbletrouble]

I am curious to read the guys answers because people like One direction and Justin Bieber claim its the "best thing ever" to have girls swarm all over you.

[RealityCheckTime]

It's true.

[lalalennon]

its more based on how much he likes you I think, I mean, just don't be creepy about it.

[xXBerserk]

If she's hot, she can do what she likes. Even if she's nit fawning, it is just as attractive as it is fun to pursue for the thrill of the game... in my opinion. Or you can simply make him a sandwich and you're good, you'll gage have him a heart beat

[xXBerserk]

Have*

[trgffggffgfg]

I prefer creepy desperate obsessive stalker women.

[FreeLunch]

I much prefer a woman that does not fawn over me. Being obvious is not sexy. I like ambiguity, uncertainty. Does she like me? How can I make her like me?

I like to work for it. The chase, the hunt. It's the best part.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Fawning is stalkerish and crazy

[RealityCheckTime]

If you're ugly.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Its still annoying

[RealityCheckTime]

Not of the girl is hot. It's awesome.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Its still a sign that she will stalk you if you break up

[RealityCheckTime]

No it's not. It just means she likes you a lot. That's a great thing if she's a 10.

[xXBerserk]

It is not annoying for a guy at all if she's hot.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Most of the time she isn't going to be hot.

[xXBerserk]

How do you know that? You psychic now?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Its about mathematical probabilities. Also hot girls get hit on all of the time so they are less likely to fawn over people. So some guy they like likes them back , they consider it to be nothing out of the norm

[xXBerserk]

So you are telling me you never fawn over a guy before?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

I did that when i was 12

[xXBerserk]

...right.. You fawn over coffee only. ...Cool, if you say so.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

exactly

[FLOGrown93]

As long as you let us know that you like us then you're good, I've been in both situations and personally I like either option ha

[RealityCheckTime]

If the girl is hot, swarm. If the girl is not hot, neither.

[legalboxers]

I dont have luck on either front. if I chase them I get nothing, and if they chase me, which is like a unicorn, it dont work either because only ones I get who chase me want to burn my bunny (fatal attraction)

[GoldCobra]

Fawn towards me

[Anonymous]

Guys don't care, either way as long as they get the girl they want.