Questions that people keep asking on GAG and their answers

[Anonymous]

I've been in GAG long enough to notice a patern of questions asked by people that need to stop being asked. I'm sure that a lot of the readers will agree that these questions need to stop.

"I have x ammount of inches on my penis is it big enough?"

Bro seriously? you're a man, have so much to offer and you worry about you god damn penis size? You should be more worried about "Am I the type of man I would like to see my daughter/sister/niece with?" if not, then change.

Also Anything over 5 inches is average and even if you are below that a girl won't care about it given that she finds you physicaly attractive and that you are good man.

"Do guys preffer boobs or butts?"

Okay laddies, I'm gonna be REAL honest and I don't mean to offend. Guys like hot girls as shamefull it is to admit, it won't change. But we also like avergage boobs or asses and just because you dont have Amber Rose's body doesn't mean you can't get a guy interested, look at Ema Watson she's not drop dead gorgeous or has a huge ass or boobs and men still find her terribly attractive.

Just doll yourself up and be a fun girl and you will get a man eventually, for god's sake I've seen REALLY ugly women married and with kids(no offense)

"What does it mean when a guy...?"

Seriously girls we are not psychic we don't know the dude we just don't know either and our speculation has a very big chance of being wrong. If you like a dude flirt with him, charm him with your wit and DON'T OVER THINK"

"Are big girls unattractive?"

I'm gonna get a lot of flame for this but, yes they are. You can have a pretty face and big boobs which is great but you are never gonna get as much attention as a fit girl. It's reality and it is what it is.

"Do girls like muscular men?"

this one is for the bros. Sorry bro but they do. Have you ever seen women hot in the panties for DJ Qualls... *crickets* Didn't think so. There are some exceptions like Johnny Depp but c'mon bros that's JOHNNY FNG DEPP! Also please note that females also hate body builder physiques. Think more or Ryan Reynolds , Taylor Lautner bodies here.

Recap:

This is good:

This is bad:

"Curvy vs fat"

The laydies keep asking if they are curvy or chubby.

What GUYS define as curvy:

What women want men to define as curvy:

[ccp16]

Great take! I brought this up not too long ago, wondering what GAG would look like if we could some how just filter out such questions and redirect people to the archive of the millions of similar questions.

[ccp16]

also, spot on with he definitions of muscular and curvy for each gender!

[PsychoRein]

Good to know about the curvy/overweight thing. I've wondered because you only see girls share pictures about "curvy" ladies. Overall, this post is beautiful.

[Anonymous]

I think it's okay for people to be worried about their bodies. Penis size included. I also don't believe in changing. That's terrible advice. Change for what? I mean are you saying you shouldn't be yourself? That you should always try to please others even if it means giving away what makes you you? No. I won't do that and I don't think others should either. Learn to grow within yourself, but don't change colors like a chameleon. Flipping from one thing to another just to please someone else. No. Just no. Stop it. I don't know about being too small but I do know about being too big and I've been denied for that so obviously it does matter and just being physically attractive isn't enough in some cases.

The boobs and butt one was funny hahaha. Can't disagree there. Still I think it's okay to be concerned with your body. That type of mindset can be helpful, because some girls hit the gym to get a better butt. Let it be motivation. And the truth to the matter is that us guys like a mix of things. I like butts more. You may like boobs more. And you're right some girls with neither are still attractive.

Yeah the next one is weird. I imagine every guy is different. I just answer those questions by what I'd be thinking. Why I'd say that. Still doesn't help much since I'm not the dude the girl is asking about.

Big girls are just like the boobs and butts questions. First of all what's a big girl? I assume you mean fat girl. Let's just call it like it is. Fat. A big girl isn't necessarily fat. Anyway, some of us guys like fat girls and some of us don't. Me I like fat girls. I also like average size and thin size too. It just depends on the guy. Though in general I guess you have to say that fat girls are unattractive, because that's how most guys are, but there are plenty of us who do like fat girls.

Dude I'm short and lean as fuck and girls have always been into me. See just like us guys have different attractive female categories females do too. There's the muscular "hot stud" guys that girls drool over and then there's the "cute" fit but rather lean guys like me. Think of it this way: On one hand a supermodel girl and on the other hand Emma Watson. Same thing.

The last two pics I just wanna say both those girls are equal in attractiveness to me. The 2nd is fat while the other is curvy. I agree there.

[Anonymous]

Im sorry to say but penis size is important for us girls and you shouldn't make men feel it doesn't matter if they dont have an average size.
I notice you love to bash on women's body if she's fat no ones gonna like her but yet you forget to mention that women want a man that's good in bed also and if he has a pea size dick it won't satisfy a woman in bed.
If you re on it to say the truth, don't pretend that penis size doesn't really matter that much just because you're a dude.

[myTake Owner]

Fat chick spotted and I never said if you have a tiny penis but most guys are average and having like 3 inches is bad every guy knows that

[checkyesjulietx]

Don't find muscles particularly attractive/unattractive on a guy - there are other much more important factors for me.

But I agreed with all your other points!

[myTake Owner]

Well most women find them attractive tho

[checkyesjulietx]

Where are these 'most' women you speak of?

[Dipsy]

What do you find more important factors for looks? The face?

[checkyesjulietx]

Face is more important in terms of physical attraction, yes. @Dipsy

[Dipsy]

Ok, cuz my body looks kind of below average (no muscles at all), but i hope my face makes up for it :p

[checkyesjulietx]

I'm sure it does :) @Dipsy even a guy with an average face I could develop an attraction for if they could make me cry laughing though :D

[Dipsy]

What exactly do you define as average? (Could you put up a picture of a famous average looking male in your opinion, so I can see for myself how I look compared to him)

I'm told I'm funny several times, but I'm not that funny that i can make anyone cry laughing. I can get people grinning and laughing out loud, but never saw anyone dying of laughter because of me ;P

[checkyesjulietx]

@Dipsy are you able to look someone up? If u can look up Jay mcguiness - you might not have heard of him because he's not massively famous (he has nearly 1m Twitter followers though) Until recently he was a band member of the wanted (they are on hiatus). He is not the most physically attractive person to me. Like he is ok but I probably wouldn't look twice at him walking along the street. But a few years ago I ended up meeting him because I was a fan of the band. He is absolutely hilarious, he's so witty and really sweet. After that he became x10 more attractive to me

[Dipsy]

I just saw some pictures of him and he look ok. He indeed isn't the most attractive person either, but he's sure above average, because of his confidence. His confidence just shines through his looks, if he were very shy, he would be way worse looking.
I guess I just have to get more confidence myself and make myself funnier.
Was he so funny that you were seriously dying of laughter because of him? (maybe the fact that he's famous made you laugh more quickly/harder too)

[checkyesjulietx]

Yeah I suppose his confidence helps. You don't need to make yourself more funny just be yourself :P no I was exaggerating. I just laughed at most things he said

[checkyesjulietx]

@Dipsy

[Dipsy]

I'm just really uncertain about my looks. One day I think I look handsome, and the other day I feel shit and think I look below average. It depends on how I slept too (whether I look tired or not) and my confidence mood during the day.

Only a few family members have told me that I'm goodlooking/handsome, not any girl I know outside of my family. That really makes me wonder. Maybe also because I don't know any girl very well (I have half a female friend (it's my crush who i kind of consider a friend. She is the only girl I sometimes, rarely, have contact with)).
I really need to get to know more girls, but I don't know where to start.

[Dipsy]

Thanks for all your help so far :) You're a great person :)

[checkyesjulietx]

Don't worry, everyone has days like that. I have never told a guy directly that I find him attractive because I am quite shy but that doesn't mean I haven't found them attractive. Girls are complicated creatures and are unlikely to just tell you that, if they like you they probably don't have the confidence to tell you. I'm sure as you mature you will become more confident in yourself and that will help you along the way. Just be patient and don't force things - You sound like you have a great personality and that will make you a more attractive person overall. I'm glad I could help. Just stay positive! :)

[checkyesjulietx]

Forgot to tag @Dipsy

[Dipsy]

Did you told them indirectly that you find him attractive? Even when you know him very well?
I'm already doing things which improve my confidence, like looking people in the eyes when walking past (yes, thats hard for me, but its going better and better). The main things I lack are confidence and well, I'm not popular/outgoing. I don't have many friends either, but I really want more, but that's mainly a confidence issue.

:)

[Dipsy]

Also, what do you do if you lock eyes with a attractive (looks-wise) guy on the street? Do you look multiple times or something? Or blush and smile (never witnessed that before, but i did saw a few girls looking down to the ground, which is good too i think)?

[checkyesjulietx]

I'll kind of jokingly say "you're alright" which kind of implies that he is not just alright. I normally look to the ground then try and look again later if I get the chance. But I'd never have the confidence to approach anyone! Eye contact is hard enough for me as it is lol @Dipsy

[checkyesjulietx]

I have never liked a guy I was already close to/friends with.

[Dipsy]

One time, half a year ago, i looked several times to a girl i didn't know when she walked me by (like she walked in the opposite direction of me. She had to do that several times to do something else). I looked at her lots of times when she walked by, and one time, she stood behind me (she had to for her job) and i looked behind me who stood behind me, and she looked down in an obvious nervous way, i just knew she found me attractive and i smiled to myself. Later that day i saw her looking at me a few times, it looked like she wanted to chat. But i didn't like her.
This hasn't happened lately.
Would you behave the same way?

[Dipsy]

**I mean, do you think this is a good way to attract girls? First looking several times, and then it might happen?

[myTake Owner]

I've been reading this and while @checkyesjulietx has a good pointDO NOT overlook your body. Justin Timberlake for example is an average guy but his bod makes him look hotter to women. Yes I agree the face is more important but no one can change his/her face.

If you have an average face working out will make you look a ton more attractive, girls love a man who takes care of himself, Dress groom yourself never forget some manly ass cologne. Good haircut and clean clothes that suit your style and DO NOT grow a beard please, thats just not sanitary if left like those hipsters online.

I used to not be able to attract ANY girls at all because I was really skinny. I worked out and gained about 30 pounds and all of a sudden some of the females that said that her and I where "just friends" all of a sudden started to try to feel my biceps and told me how my face looked soo much better, more dates and better overall social life.

Never follow the "just be yourself" advice it's to complacent

[myTake Owner]

Cont- it takes away the opportunity to be the best version of yourself you can be. Instead of "just be yourself" "improve to be the best version of yourself possible" trust me there's nothing wrong with self improvement

[Dipsy]

Yes, improving yourself/being the best version of yourself is never bad :)
How long did it take you for working out to get slightly visible muscles? (I dont want too much muscles, just a little bit)
I can't do much about clothing, since my mum buys my clothes and she doesn't want to buy expensive clothes

[Dipsy]

Which is logical
@AnonymousTakeWriter

[myTake Owner]

Well my Advice since you are still growing it will be faster and easier at your age. Just go to your schools gym google a simple 3 day a week workout and eat a bit more food that you are eating now.(if your mom cooks 3 times a day add an extra meal, maybe two PB and Js or something you can cook youself)

Learn how to cook ask your mom how to cook some simple stuff or learn from youtube google "how to build muscle" or "how to lose fat in the gym" if you think you are too skinny the first one, the second on eif you want abss and all.

You won't get overly muscular if you don't go all obsesive on it

[Dipsy]

Forgot to @mention me
But wait, if timberlake's face is average. Well then im certainly below average lol

I got 12% body fat, but im 16 years old. I think its normal. But i dont see any shapes of muscles at all on my body lol, even my chest is completely flat lol. I think its not supposed to be like that

[myTake Owner]

Well that's notmal you have an average body fat mine is 8% I can see some abs but not much but I'm still working on building muscle since I'm still skinny. Yes Timberlake is Average facewise but his confidence and body make him sexy to women not to mention he is passionate about music also a big plus. just dare to start and NEVER EVER give up

[Dipsy]

I really dont think he's average facewise lol

[checkyesjulietx]

Lol @Take Owner - you do try and pass your opinions off as facts a bit too much. Just accept that people have different preferences and perspectives to you. I don't think JT has an average face, nor would majority of women.

@Dipsy yes if you liked her that would be a good way to let her know you're interested. And a friendly smile would be good too. if you're feeling brave you could even say hi. Just remember you have nothing to lose.

[Dipsy]

There is nothing to lose and everything to win :)
(Win = girl or experience/confidence, so you actually always win)

Thanks for your help :)

[myTake Owner]

Well I do speak objectvely, and I said his face is average because that's what most girls I know have told me and I also seen in a forums and stuff. Here you are telling the kid that he is Fine the way he is I'm telling him he can improve on himself to feel better and also he will get better results. I know this by experience.

Girls on this site swear and scream at the top of their lungs that bodies are not important but I'm a firm believer than actions speak loader than words. Some homeboy post a picture of his great abs and mayority of girls start saying it's attractive yet you see the same girls telling guys who ask that the body has nothing to do with attractiveness (not saying you do but a lot of them do it)

[checkyesjulietx]

It's not objective but okay.

The reason I told him to be himself is it's better than going down a route where you're constantly being something you're not. I'd rather be complacent than act like a completely different person. I agree people should be the best versions of themselves but there is a very fine line.

With all due respect, GAG is not exactly the most reliable source to base your judgments off and the fact you think it is is slightly worrying. All you need to know is that there are plenty of us who don't see the body as an important factor. In fact, when I see a guy with ripped abs and a body most other girls would swoon over I normally am put off because I know he probably spends too much time in the gym and is possibly even a narcissist.

[checkyesjulietx]

Oh and the reason I feel like that is in the last few years my dad has become an obsessive gym visitor and it has nearly torn my family apart.

[mithramitzmittu]

The part where you explained the difference between muscular guys and curvy girls was awesome.(like expectations vs reality) And yeah... penis size. Jeez! Everyday there are at least 100 questions about dick size and you'll forgotten about "rate me " questions. Over all... Great take!

[AleDeEurope]

Good take, hopefully people read this. GAG should send this Take to every new person that signs up to GAG so that they know what not to ask.

P. S.: So just to clarify, is a 10 inch dick big enough? :S

[myTake Owner]

nah bru you need 50 inches to even have her feel you mane

[AleDeEurope]

Ugh dang it! :(

[TheGrumpyCat]

The Grumpy Cat approves!

https://imgur.com/i2UqRdV.jpg

[myTake Owner]

it is an honor

[YourFutureEx]

I love you, love you, LOVE YOU (no H). You hold the same opinions as me. I wish gag make it mandatory to read this while people sign up here :D

[Anonymous]

Great take! I love, love, LOVE your distinction between what guys define as curvy--good curvy--and what SOME girls would LIKE us to believe is curvy. That first girl is so freaking hot it's unbelievable! Fit and STACKED! That second one is bordering on being livestock! lol!

[ChocEyes]

Yea, I bet when Ronnie Coleman won 8 Mr Olympia titles his motivation was to be considered sexy (SARCASM)

[Nuqood]

I don't think that was the message the OP was trying to convey..

Why deviate from the message just to be a smart arse? You're being counter-intuitive.

[myTake Owner]

I lift weight so I know hoe hard it is to build a good physique BUT that doesn't change body builders look really bad especially aestetically

[ChocEyes]

Maybe they look bad to the general public, but then again they're not trying to be aestetically attractive for it. And that's the point. They're not trying to be hot, they're trying to succeed in the sport's criteria. If you want to see someone who IS trying to be attractive and fails misearbly you should check this guy:

www.rantlifestyle.com/.../

[myTake Owner]

there's many synthol guus out the my point being The dude looks bad even tho he didn't do it to look good he still looks extremely bad

[ChocEyes]

Ok. I guess most people would agree with you.

I have to say I don't consider bodybuilders particularly "attractive". However, I think being a 8 times Mr Olympia winner is a far greater thing than being hot.

By the way, my personal favorite body would be of a MMA fighter. Because it's functional and effective in every way.

[nert73]

Some of this is great while some of it is kind of off. For the most part I must say this is a good take. I agree with almost all of it.

[Aeon_Flux_21]

Trust me I know women love muscles. My bro is very very ripped and the girls notice him first all the time. I literally can't compete with him.

[crystalt70]

I only stopped here because... hot dude!

[myTake Owner]

enjoy

[crystalt70]

Sorry, but that's what caught my attention. You made some very valid points.

[myTake Owner]

Well nothing like a good looking guy or girl to catch attention, it's called marketing

[crystalt70]

Well, you did your job well. Maybe you should pursue a marketing career.

[myTake Owner]

I have a masters in business :)

[crystalt70]

Awesome! I too have a business degree.

[myTake Owner]

a business woman is always hot in my book!

[Anonymous]

My question is why isn't every guy on gag look like the first guy?😳😬😠😑😕😠

[myTake Owner]

hell I wish i looked like that

[Anonymous]

You are so right, great take.

I think it's really good you stick to the truth, even when politically incorrect.

[ThatBritishLad]

This take'll be forgotten in a couple of days time. Your efforts are moot bloke.

[thewhiteballer]

Im actually more attracted to the quote and quote less curvy girl.

[MissMc3]

I totally agree on everything

[SassyGirl171123]

That guy with the tats he is super hot & has beautiful eyes! Omg! 😍😍😍

[kitty71]

aGREED TOTALLY HOT

[UnknownXYZ]

The pictures made me laugh so hard! Great Take! :D

[myTake Owner]

thanks and yeah but It's a solid point that 99% of GAG are too afraid to admit!

[UnknownXYZ]

Yeah this website is getting worse. I am seriously considering leaving this website for good.

[myTake Owner]

You can't say "I don't like fat girls" without a pitchfork mob at your doorstep

[UnknownXYZ]

It's because people see fat people as a completely different entity and saying you don't like them is seen as discrimination and shallow. You can't win.

[myTake Owner]

I posted anon and still afraid of a mob getting to my house

[UnknownXYZ]

Haha, I am going to post my first Take real soon.

[Ashely_Princess]

Great take dude! :)