The tension, the flirting: there are many ways a guy chasing a girl can be fun. Guys have chased me, sometimes for years, and I didn’t even realize how I was doing. Some guys seemed really irresistible to me, and I didn’t know why. There are many ways you can make a guy or a girl magnetized, no matter how shy you are.
Don’t play hard to get: It is easy see through that, and nobody likes it. But what you can do is just not care. I know some of you might be infatuated. I understand that, I’ve definitely been there. But realize that the man or woman of your dreams isn’t perfect and isn’t necessary to your life and think about other things.
Take it slow: This is the most powerful way to entrance someone. When you show on one aspect of yourself, and then you suddenly another side of you like playful, gentle, or funny etc. When a person does that, it makes them feel like there’s more to you. Like they have only seen the tip of the iceberg. For example, I am seem shy. I making myself speak out more, and showed my humorous side, speaking in public, playing the piano. Then I began to receive a lot of attention. It was almost ridiculous.
Look and feel good: I know this sounds cliché, but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. If you put effort into looking nice, be kind…someone will find you attractive. It’s just life. A tip for you shy guys and girls: Always dress nicely, and be near your crush with your friends. That is the best time to be yourself, it’s easy to relax around your close friends. Initially I didn’t like a shy guy. He began to dress in a manner that complimented him and when I saw him talking animatedly with his friends, I felt a little flutter. The combination of elegance and him showing another side of himself fascinated me. The same works for girls, when I talk and joke around with my friends, guys would approach me or brush against me.
Don’t be desperate: If the guy/girl seems aloof or doesn’t pay you any mind when they usually are all over you, don’t despair. They may have had an argument with a family member or a friend. Just give them space, they will enjoy you more if you are not all over them. I see this a lot when the girl/guy must receive a text from their significant other every hour or so explaining what they are doing, where they are.. Seriously? The last thing your crush needs is a body guard. Eventually, they will resent you if you are attempting to control them.
The combination of all of these things is the best way to make anyone chase you without manipulating or playing hard to get. Get ready to be chased!