I was really insecure when I came here. It wasn't GAG that fixed this. Honestly, I could appreciate the really really good Best Answers only after I figured out things that allowed me to understand WHY they were BA-worthy. Most of my questions used to be about why girls expect X while others say Y; and the answer was "stop seeing girls as girls, learn how to understand other human beings as individuals". It's a different perspective, and obviously the answers to these questions didn't really help. A lot of people don't reach this perspective: after you learn to read the behavior of others, and comprehension through empathy and understanding, all of these questions just don't make any sense.
Both actually. This is mostly an American site, and I find American women on the whole to be a lot more superficial and materialistic than English girls. This is just on the basis of my experience. I find English women far more down to earthand able to just enjoy your company without requiring a checklist.istill love American women.
So reading answers from women here can make you insecure. But as I've always said, you can only be hurt psychologically if you're capable of being hurt. So feeling insecure is a great opportunity to question these self perceptions and an opportunity for growth. As it so happens, you don't have to justify yourself to anybody.
Neither. It hasn't effected me to be more secure or less secure. Maybe it has made me more assure of myself but overall nothing really has changed. I've just been given perspective about things and it has made me wiser. I'm still as confident as I was when I first joined.
This web site has made me a lot more secure because i am able to ask questions freely and people will give there opinions. so far even though it might be harsh way of telling me things everyone has made me feel really good about myself and more positive. :) for everyone who has felt more insecure just message me and you will never have that problem again :) Lov all ya GAG people :)
Overall more secure. Dutch athiest pretty much summed it up perfectly. So many people seem to have problems far worse than I do. And all these rate me questions that pop up. I feel I look way better than a lot of them (no shocker right) and ladies say rhey look good (unless being nice)
i suppose more secure, especially when i first joined, i really had no clue how women really thought, but thanks to this site i do now. the thing i still struggle with is being more confident or courageous.
Probably about the same. I mean I guess I may have been a little more insecure when I got here, but I have done a lot of growing in general, not sure GAG has anything to do with it. But of course people have said very nice things to me and it's greatly appreciated :)
At first I was insecure, but than I turned secure. But because of these 'rate me' questions, I feel kinda ugly cos some of the girls are extremely beautiful but people only give them like a 6 or 7. I dont even understant these rating stuff but I think most of the girls would be a 10 or even above even though people give numbers like 6 or 7
It has not changed anything for me. But I know certain posters are hiding behind a facade and this is their fantasy land to be the image they project, which isn't necessarily them, and for them I trust it's quite the ego boost.