If GaG turn in some small town and you have same relationship with others on here as you have now.
Which doors would you be knocking on to see what they upto and who would you be hanging out with in days and making plans for night with? And what would be your plans with them? Lol. With whom you'd be lighting up the whole town during night and just hang out a lot with?
I just saw some questions related with GaG members so I thought should make one myself and ask lol. Think I did a good pretty job actually tehehe 😋
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Different places different etiquette.
I lived nearly always in cities. In the city where I live, you don't go knocking on one's door, you phone your close friends first to ask if it's OK if you knock for a 5' talk. I'm not the only one to say it: cheeseweb.eu/2014/04/3-reasons-no-belgian-friends/
Neighbours? You wait till you see them by hazard, say Hi! Ask about their kids and they start talking to you (or not, if the kids are flunking at school). Then you can timidly suggest drinking a coffee together some (later) time. Everyone expects and accepts a "I'm too busy" as answer, even from close family.
Being more intrusive is considered VERY rude and uncivilized, peasant way.
If -by sheer hazard- you meet your neighbors when on vacation, 100 miles from home, they expect you to smile, say "Hi, the weather is fine, how do you do?" and pass your way.
I lived in several cities, in two big towns, once in a small town.
I'm not at ease even in larger in towns. Imagine seeing your ex and her family and friends every other day? Knowing the brother of the Walmart or 7/11 girl is your sister's ex who dumped her? Knowing your mom (maybe) had a teen affair with the teacher, some 20 years ago?
If GaG turned into a small town I'd wait and see if someone tried to establish contact. Then I'd feel very awkward if I had to turn that person down for some reason.1