every time i ask a question, i feel like the answers don't help at all, mainly because my questions i keep them short and sweet, and because they pertain to my real lift events, it's hard to write out every detail about the flirting between a guy and girl, or describe sequence of events in real life, and since answerers on my question don't know each detail, they assume the worse, and simply answer: like oh dump him he's cheating you, he doesn't like you move on, forget him find someone else...youre ugly go kill yourself..it just makes me not even ask stuff anymore..cause these are not even constructive answers offering any meaningful insight. i dont know why people come on gag act like they know the best advice and then tell you you're ugly the guy doesn't like u, he never did, move on...cause i asked one silly question about a guy ignoring my text or something...like how does this even equate to real life?
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Even as a person with a 50% (gasp, it fell to 49 this week) most helpful rating (I still think Mr. Oracle is higher, *shakes fist*), I can tell you that every question I ever answer is grasping at straws at best.
No matter how insightful, careful, or studious I take any question there is absolutely no way I know exactly what that other person is going through even if it sounds really similar to something I went through. Literally in the space of 2,000 characters you got to describe to complete strangers a problem and we got to answer it also in such a space. Is that even possible? Its not like we got a magical video cam hovering over the Asker's life 24/7, its not like we really know the background of anything even if we did. You might as well send a spaceship to the moon for all the difficulty of truly reaching even one human being over the internet like this.
All I can say is that I try my best and I hope the Asker's can find it helpful. Now a lot of the troll things you are describing like "go kill yourself" or other things are mainly written by unhelpful people who have no interest whatsoever in the condition or qualify of life of the Asker, and just basically ignore them :)
Try to 'follow' people who give you good answers, and if you are lucky they will 'follow' you back, and then show up on your answers more because your Q's will be in their feed. In this way, you can somewhat build a circle of what you (personally) feel are more competant answerers from incompetant ones.
I am also sorry to hear some people trolled your text-messaging question. Even though I communicate a lot with texts, I "save" the emotional depth part for face to face meetings or calls, so I tend not to answer the very common "I texted... is he still interested?" questions.0