So GAG has been less pleasant for me for some time now, for a couple of different reasons.
I have, however, had fun on GAG in the past, and have "met" some really nice people over here =) GAG has led me to believe that whatever I'm going through, whatever it is I'm feeling, I'm not alone and that I'm worth it.
I guess this post is more directed towards people who have interacted with me, or have noticed my posts. To the others, please forgive this selfish post =p
On my last days on GAG, I'm all ears. I know too well that I'm far from perfect or far from being the most tactful or most sensitive user on GAG =) But this is the real me, I never wear any masks, ever. So give it to me! haha... If there's anything you've noticed on my posts so far, good or bad, let's hear it. I'd really appreciate any input on anything that you think could better me. Give me your constructive criticism, I will take them seriously.
The only thing I ask is: Please put it nicely. I don't want to argue with anyone on my last day on GAG. So please don't be mean, okay? =) Oh and my inbox is open for public, if you prefer to write me there =)
I may come back when I need advice again... In the meantime, I'm hoping that deactivating my account would do something good to my real life haha! GAG is too much of a distraction and I'm getting tired of the questions and some of the users. So I'm taking the high road and saying: Ciao!
You guys, thank you SO much for your very kind words! Thank you for making me feel appreciated and respected for being the real me. Because in the real world, Daph doesn't get to play that often. I'm mostly too shy or too insecure to voice out
my opinions the way I did here. I just think that nobody actually cares or listens to me, or that my ideas and opinions are stupid. I need to work on this.
Noooooooo Daph nooooooo!!! This news has seriously dampened my otherwise great day :,(
My advice to you is to be you and don't let little whiny attention whore b****** like that one guy we discussed bother you. They are only out for attention and if you don't give it to them...they die inside a little :) It is the best feeling to see them suffer, haha. I can't believe I'm saying haha on this post because I am so sad and not smiling right now...like the last episode of Breaking Bad :(
If you wanna stay in contact you can HMU and we'll get it...if not then it was very nice meeting you and seeing your contributions and I wish you the very best that life has to offer...you will be missed.
You'll need to find a new distraction site or better yet take up a hobby you've been curious about. The hours logged on sites like this you could learn an instrument or learn a talent. Alternatively you could spend it getting drunk and arguing with an imaginary rat but something will need to fill the gap. I've been coming here less lately already as finding the collective is something I don't feel I fit in to.
Don't go Daph. Just get the admins to get a different blocking system. One where you block them and they are actually blocked. You never see their posts again. The stupid immature opinions. The negative type avatars.
If that doesn't work just tell me. I'll go. You've been here longer.
Keep being you. Keep being smart. Keep questioning everything. Surround yourself with whatever makes you happy and drop the remainder because life is too short for unhappiness. You're a special person so I'm sure whatever you encounter in life you can persevere.
Hey Daph, well it was a pleasure to communicate with you on here... if you don't mind - since you have my e-mail address, feel free to post me a nice mail from time to time! Not every day because than it feel like an obligation. But it's interesting to learn from people abroad and care for people that you like.
I've appreciated every aspect of Daph as she is: always straight in your answers and daring to ask what you wanted to know. Good job. Stay who you are Daph. And if I may I would like to stay a friend :-) Tap on your shoulder and big cuddle from Belgium!
damn i too dont like to wear mask either and i love saying thing like they should be which of course is why i call myself a red piller. so wow it kills me that another rep piller is gonna be out of here. but i really hope you come back. but in the mean time have a nice safe trip in life without gag and please never regret being a red piller
i never had the chance to get to know you, but I've seen your username pop up a fair few times. and from what I've seen, you have fairly interesting opinions.. some that are insightful and some that bring a smile to my face. shame to see someone leave but we all have to at some point, right? :p wish you all the best with all that is to come in the future and hope it all turns out for the better!!
"In dreams we do so many things We set aside the rules we know And fly the world so high In great and shining rings If only we could always live in dreams If only we could make of life What, in dreams, it seems But in the real world We must say real goodbyes"
I don't have any advice or criticism. I just wanted to say farewell. I have enjoyed your posts on this site and I think your presence will certainly be missed around here. I wish you the best of luck in all life has to offer you:)
woke up in the morning, checked my phone and saw this... why is everybody that i know is leaving GAG? :( i mean it is good that people know what they wanted , and i wish you all the best in whatever you do but i really hope you would stay... :(((((( you are very nice and sincere person...this is sad GAG used to be a distraction for me but now i just checked when i am free, it can be managed...i agreed that the questions can be repetititve among many users here, i would say you are one of the few that had interesting topics
I always hate to see a familiar member leave! No advice, no criticisms. Just know that I always enjoyed reading your answers and comments. You are honest and you go straight to the point no matter what. I think that's a great quality to have. Too many people on GAG now just beat around the bush and it's ridiculously tiring most of the time. I understand your reasons for leaving and I don't blame you at all.
Go forth, enjoy your life, and if I'm ever in Europe again I'll pay you a visit :D
:( I'm sorry you're leaving... Hope you return one of these days. Until then, best of luck to you. You come across as a really considerate person, I can't imagine you not getting all that you deserve :)
:( well i dont know u on a personal level but i will say that it has been a pleasure reading some of ur advice on here, i know that ur a great woman. i do wish u all the best with ur future goals. GaG will miss u for sure. take care xo
Not sure if we interacted directly, but I have enjoyed reading your posts. I never viewed you as harsh or insensitive. But maybe because I relate. :) Anyhow, I think you are doing the right thing, best of luck and drop in once in a while! Best
Sorry to hear you are leaving!! I didn't know you that well but I loved reading your answers and posts. You always provided good insight to things and it was always no bullshit with you which I like. Good luck to you! Hope you come back one day!