I've been asked out twice in the past few months by some guys I am friendly with.
The first guy was cool about it kinda, but when I rejected him he said "well there's a better way to reject a guy you know. " He had told me he was going to bring me flowers and I said he shouldn't and that I don't like him like that.
The second guy made me hate him. We had hung out once and then he texted me and asked if I was single. I said yes so he asked me to the movies. I made up a lie and said I couldn't because honestly if you tell a guy you don't wanna date him when he asks you to the movies he'll say something like "I'm not trying to date you wtf."
So the next weekend he asked me again and I was legit busy and the next weekend he asked me again so I said that I was really interested in a guy that I'm talking to and he said "so? You aren't dating him so give me a chance. " I told him no and he said let's just hang as friends and maybe we'll have something later on and I said no because I don't want him thinking we'll have something later on.
Why? Why make it so hard on the girl?
No girl LIKES rejecting guys. And I don't appreciate being guilted either.
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Because you are young and guys will guilt trip you at the age, many are still very immature. It won't be as bad when you get older and the guys mature more and can read between the lines.0