I was browsing through questions and saw some things that I would never think of in terms of insecurities. Is it weird to now know that women freak out over things like tan-lines, bikini bumps, body shape because they're so afraid of you not liking what you see?
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I think each gender obssesses about different things, but both obsess quite well. While women worry about their figure, guys are worried if they are macho enough or confident sounding enough or if there voice is low enough or if they make enough money or drive a cool enough car and the list goes on and on.
Whether its a woman seeking perfect bell shaped curves or a man trying to balance the crazy dance of being both tough and sensitive, and knowing what she wants + other mindreading, its all apart of the big show that is our society's mating ritual.
In a way, its all really kind silly. Yet we all play. :)2