I was browsing through questions and saw some things that I would never think of in terms of insecurities. Is it weird to now know that women freak out over things like tan-lines, bikini bumps, body shape because they're so afraid of you not liking what you see?
I think each gender obssesses about different things, but both obsess quite well. While women worry about their figure, guys are worried if they are macho enough or confident sounding enough or if there voice is low enough or if they make enough money or drive a cool enough car and the list goes on and on.
Whether its a woman seeking perfect bell shaped curves or a man trying to balance the crazy dance of being both tough and sensitive, and knowing what she wants + other mindreading, its all apart of the big show that is our society's mating ritual.
In a way, its all really kind silly. Yet we all play. :)
There are many that I already knew. They are pretty obvious. But some that did surprise me also exist. Women need to stop worrying so much about themselves. And the media needs to change. But I don't know if that's even possible now. It has gone too far to come back.
In fact i feel much closer to women now :)( not in reality at all lol) Sometimes they are annoying but deep inside it feels " oh god that's so cute!" Girls don't open up in reality in the way they do in gag. So i am getting exposed to their inside world. So sad that i cannot meet any female gager in reality. But only certain personality type of female gagers ( like Say introverted type) are here and hence they don't represent the thoughts of all women.
I already knew this, nothing out of the ordinary. When my ex met me and I asked her out for a date, she admitted she could not decide what to wear and she looked in every mirror in the house to make sure she looked good. =)
Not really, no. There are plenty of girls I've met in person that don't stress themselves out over the little details, think too much, and just generally enjoy themselves in the moment. It's a charming trait for a girl (or anyone, for that matter), but I've only really seen it belong to girls on this site.
So if anything, the girls on this site have some work to do...not the ones in real life
girls just haven't learned yet to control their out of controlled jumbled emotions
For what you mentioned? Not at all weird. I've heard plenty of chit chat between women and sounds like usual stuff.
What I do find interesting is the amount of women, or rather girls that have no idea about relationships in general. Things like how to tell if a person likes them, how to get him interested, should I get back with my ex, I like my best friend/coworker what do I do?
I haven't looked at the questions on the guys prospective but I'd imagine something similar.
Its just interesting how many of these questions get asked. I would never have thought girls didn't know these things.