Oh that's very hot. Your guy will love it. The next time you think you two should get down & dirty you should be the rough one. You command him. That way he will get the sign or idea that you wanna be rough with him and he will do the same to you next time.
Different people think different things. Some people wouldn't like it. Other people would. It depends on the person.
For me, yes. As long as it doesn't go to far, it's incredibly hot. A woman being somewhat rough is very hot. And, in addition, it can't *only* be rough. There has to be some sensuality and togetherness and such.
The best thing, in my opinion, is starting out seductively and sensually, then building up to being more and more rough.