These questions come up pretty much daily, but as I read them I'm somewhat confused what exactly the term means. Technically, you can see some opinions of a specific person on specific subjects and a fragment of how they represent their ideas, and possibly a picture next to it - but that's that. You don't really know them. So what is this "crush" thing about?
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Developing an attraction based on the image you create of them. For instance, I don't know much about you but we have spoken a lot and I will subconsciously fill in any 'blanks' about your personality and create a 'virtual' you. The more I find out about you will determine whether that crush increases or decreases in intensity. If you continue to reveal things about yourself which fit in with my already pre-conceived ideas about you then the attraction will grow, if you begin to dispel some of those ideas and show your true nature and it isn't in line with the half imagined man then the attraction will decrease and eventually disappear. Of course this is from the perspective of someone having a crush on a personality and not just looks, if we're talking about looks then it will be a simple case of finding the person physically attractive, but I don't need to explain that to you my friend.1
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