I have to say. People here are really kind and polite compared to most other message boards. This place also tends to be the least bad in terms of making one feel insecure and unsure of themselves. One symptom I have noticed is that if you linger too long on relationships sites such as Loveshack, etc, that in and of itself can be emotionally and mentally draining and arouse insecurity. I noticed that this site seems to do the least of that. Also again, overall it seems as if people here are most supportive.