Someone was asking if 20 was old enough to have a kid and I said that 20 is perfect so long as you always wanted to be a mother. I got tons of down votes. Did people think I was being sarcastic or.. what am I missing here?
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I didn't dv you, but I would have, here is why... What if you where 20 and wanted a Ferrari? Do you just go out and get one? NO! The average cost of having a kid, raising and sending to college is $250,000! All you have to do is have sex and get pregnant. If you can't afford a Ferrari, then maybe you also can't afford a kid either! Babies and kids are expensive and require a few things first. You just don't have a baby because you want one. Sorry man, but love doesn't pay the bills. You need a decent income, you need a roof over head and you need some wheels. To get this you need a decent job which normally requires a good education. Once you are done school and start a career, buy a home and get a few years in at your new job would put you somewhere 25+ years old. 30 would be a perfect age, not 20.0