I joined because I like to help people and it gave me something to do in my free time, but I've found out the little time that I've been here I'm already annoyed with everybody's depression and psychological problems. I almost feel like a dick for saying this, but this website is really a collection of losers.
I came to GaG both to help others. learn, and grow as a person. I could probably count on one hand how many lives I've actually contributed to over the course of 5 years (considering most people don't actually apply knowledge, rather, they come back and keep medicating on the attention and false hope) and I've learned far too much about women. My ignorance would serve me better in the sad event of a rejection. I could have just thought "Oh she's having a bad day" or "Oh our personalities just don't match". Instead, I have the entire female playbook at my disposal, and I can see every fiber of my being that fails to meet her expectations. It's paralyzing, but it didn't have to be so.
Did I grow as a person? Not until my actual life experiences began to progress did I grow as a person. GaG has sadly, contributed nothing to the knowledge I will impart on my journey to success. It's sad because there is no excuse for a Q&A forum to be completely void of intellectual integrity. There are smart users here and there, but not nearly enough of them. Now it's even worse, as the youngest of the young compose a large portion of the live feed asking questions that no longer make this site a mutually beneficial learning experience. Silly questions, stupid questions, naïve and obvious ones... Can't forget the vague unanswerable questions with bad details to work with. When will it end? It ends when the tab closes, and for that I am thankful.
To call everyone losers is something I won't do. But I am in concurrence with you on people who ask for help but won't accept it for whatever reason. Help is help, it won't always be a clean tongue to their dirty cracks or skillful strokes that erect their limp egos. The truth does not cater to feelings, friends. Whenever I end up taking minutes of my day providing a sincere answer and discover that I've hit a brick wall hidden under the guise of a genuine question, I wish bad things for them.
I found this website while googling a question about boys. Haha, I joined the same day. At first I was more about just getting advice, but I found it fun to give it too. Yes, this site has some losers, but not everyone is bad. Sure, there are some downfalls to GAG, but it's usually not all that bad.
Like you said I joimed GAG because I like to help people and I love to give out advice. Except in the contrary I enjoy being on GAG. I mean I get bored on here every now and again considering the same topics become more and more redundant or the fact that most questions that are asked on here don't even relate to advice but just random questions to pass the time.
But like I said I'm here to help. Not to mention earning points to win rewards is a bonus.
I was originally here to ask a question about something, but I ended up hanging around because I liked the idea of answering different questions for people who wanted to know something. Some questions are interesting but others aren't, so I'm on here infrequently now to pass the time when I'm bored.
I got on here because I randomly found this site why googling a question. I saw what people posted and I thought it was intriguing. I can see why you would think this site is full of losers. Anyone can certainly post serious questions here but most people use this site to ask questions they're too embarrassed to ask their friends
I'm new, but happened on this when I was looking for the best way to say GFY to an ex who keeps trying to booty call me. Found the interesting combination of losers, depravity and assholery here entertaining. Will see how long til I get bored.
Honestly, the reason I came here, is the same reason I stay... I like helping out girl with understanding men. I have a knack for explaining things, and I love girls, I feel very protective over any and all girls I like at all, and therefor have this urge to help them with their relationships. The more girls understand guys, the better off the world will be. And, lets be honest - Its way more easy for girls to understand guys, than for guys to understand girls. And girls... you know that's true.