Have you been creeped out, insulted, ridiculed or straight up verbally abused?
What are you stories involving another gager taking it too far?
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hmm, it's actually more common than you expect. iv seen it many times.
it has happened to me before but i believe I'm only a victim if i allow myself to be. if you just get into this mindset where nothing can hurt you, then i think you have control of every situation. ever since i joined, i decided to only focus on the benefits. members will come and go. you'll get new ones who come here acting like they own the site and some who just take a beating without saying a word.
taking control in a civil and mature manner is the best way to deal with twerps. in an online community in particular, iv figured that silence is literally golden. jerks can't stand it, so use it rather than talking and kindling a fire.3