Valentine's day is nearing. The scariest day of the year for the forever lonelies. I wish I could just boycott this fucking hallmark "holiday" for the rest of my life. It makes me hate the entire world and myself even more. It's just everywhere. Like Justin Bieber when he had not gone to the douchebag side yet. Very annoying.
To all of you who have gfs/bfs to celebrate Valentine's day with, good for you.
Please do remember that there are tons of miserable singles out there. So Please... don't rub it in our faces.
I used to feel this way but over the years I've learned to embrace being single. There are ways to be single and NOT lonely. So what if you don't have someone on Valentine's day? Make a day out of it? Hang out with friends that don't have someone for the holiday either. Or if all your friends are taken, just make it one of those relaxing "Me" days. It could quit nice if you don't dwell on the negative. :P
not at all. just because I'm single, it doesn't mean i need to act like the world revolves around me and I'm depressed. I'm single because i either want to be, haven't had the chance of meeting someone, or I'm unsuccessful because i need to improve myself. if anything, Valentine's should be at least a consideration for the people who have found that in their lives. would i like to have someone to share that day with? of course, but until then i can't just feel sorry for myself. it's a motivation to become better and enjoy my single life as a process of loving myself before i can love someone else. for now, be ur own valentine=]
I just find it an annoying holiday. Pretty much every holiday is annoying to me, though. Such oversensationalized crappery.
I don't think it makes sense though to be offended by the happiness of others. Yeah some couples are irritating as heck because they act like they'd love nothing more than to want to roll their love into individual bullets and shoot them down the throats of each innocent bystander. But love doesn't only come in the form of a relationship. If you feel lonely on Valentine's day find somebody else to spend it with even if you aren't in a relationship. Be happy with those who do love you no matter who they are.
I don't care so much that I'm alone for it. I doubt I'd want to celebrate it if I was in a relationship. I just hate how it's so over hyped. The only time I enjoyed it was when I was a kid. I loved it when we got Valentine candies and cards back then. Now it just seems like there is a lot of pressure for couples out there for a certain date. There are so many days out there as it is to celebrate with a loved one, why add another one? I think romance would be more fun when it's spontaneous and not just because of a certain day. I'm hoping if I ever do get in a relationship that I'll be with a guy that doesn't care for it.
Just judging by the questions on this site already I can see that there is pressure. I read one question where a girl wanted to force her boyfriend to celebrate it even though he hates it. I feel like people get stressed about what they have to do for it.
I've been single for so long now, and tbh, im starting to love it. I love this time to myself, and not having some stupid guy controlling my life... but I still have respect for those in relationships, because I know that when I find someone, im gunna fucking love Valentine's day LOOOL
As usual each time when there is a national holiday or festival coming like Christmas, people would create all the posts. but here i dont think that much since many are singles. Just ignore those posts
Instead of being bitter about it, you could just ignore it. If you can't stand Valentine's Day so much, avoid places you know are going to make a big deal about it. Others have every right to be happy about being with someone and excited for a special day with them.
No... No No... No No No. I love Valentine's Day. Why? Cause instead of spending it with A Lover (Which I Don't Have) I spend it eating Cupcakes Loaded with Frosting With All My other Single Friends. Valentine's day is about love right? Why Not Just Embrace The Love Of Cupcakes?
You speak my language. My high school has "Single Awareness Day" (aka SAD) off. I guess they thought it was more humane to let us grieve in peace. I just take the time to appreciate my boyfriend. He does this cute thing where he didn't exist. It is adorable.