Myy cousin is having a big birthday party tomorrow. We are going to a restaurant and then clubbing. He's real popular iand will have a lot of beautiful girls there. I'm normally quiet for the most part and can be shy at times. Any advice?
If you mimic your cousin's behavior then you're sure to get similar results as he does. That being said, it's always best just to be yourself. If you want to push yourself you can try getting out of your comfort zone by trying to be a little more social. Just relax, maybe have a few drinks and most importantly, have fun! Don't stress about it though, it's just a party ;)
I am sure you are good looking and a really nice guy. Just try to project all those nice and fun attributes that you have inside of you outwards. You have no reason not to be confident and being shy is normal. Just smile and put in clothes in which you feel good and everyone will notice that you feel good and self confident. Everyone wants to be friends with someone who is self confident.