This site seems to be dominate by people aged 16-30, and even 30 seems a little "old." I put old in quotations because I'm not saying a 40 year old is actually elderly, but they are older than most people on this site. And I'm really not trying to say that "they don't belong," I really am curious as to why a 40-yr-old dude would want to be a part of this site where you have 18-yr-olds asking "is my dick big enough" and "he smiled do you think he likes me"?
Is it that you older people have questions about dating too? How did you find this site and why did you join? Are you a part of many online forums?
As someone in college I joined because I have genuine questions about dating/relationships, and I will also use my experiences to answer questions. But I think I will grow out on this side and I don't anticipate still logging on when I'm 40. So I'm wondering, why do you like this site?
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Think of it as a low cost low commitment mentoring program. We older dudes have learned a thing or two and we want to give back.
I acknowledge that sometimes the signal to noise ratio here can get pretty bad. But there is still satisfaction to be had finding that one person who needs some help and giving it.
Maybe someday I'll ask a question. For now though, I'm happy providing answers.15
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