Have you ever tried to write out a detailed social dilemma on GAG, only to find yourself figuring out the solution as you type it into the details box?
Like, sometimes it seems like I have a profound issue that requires a legion of gurus and teenage ragamuffins to guide me through. Then, once I've put my dilemma into words I realize the solution was rather obvious and end up scrapping the question altogether.
Yeah because when you try to explain your problem here you have to organize your thoughts and put the pieces together for the story to make sense to others. Then it may happen that you realize that the answer has been crystal clear all along
Never. But sometimes I have problems, and I think that the world is going to end and I freak out. And I tell my freinds the problem. And they have the easiest most simple solutions. For examole: "you don't even have to tell them"