I've always sensed it, but I didn't realize it was going on until someone asked about it recently. The girls on here tend to be much more feminist, much more conservative, much more slut-shaming (kind of anti-feminist imo), and much less superifical than the vast majority of girls I come across in day-to-day life. For instance, one guy asks what a girl's reaction would be if a guy grabbed her at a party and start to kiss her. Well, I've done that plenty of times when the girls weren't even drinking that much and I've seen other guys do it too.
To me, it's kind of sad that the girls on GaG are so skewed towards the description I've described, because guys who come here for answers and to learn more about hte opposite sex get a view that isn't true to how most girls are so they develop so many beliefs which simply don't hold up for most girls such as most girls won't date a guy or give a guy more of a chance if he's good looking, that more than 10% of girls don't do hookups even when they attracted to the guy, and instead of responding to guys with "character" even if they don't have confidence they respond to guys with confidence even if they don't have character.
You shouldn't generalize. I think's why you are having a difficult time understanding it. Girls on here.. girls in real live... EVERYONE are their own individuals with their own personal likes, dislikes etc. If you want to find a generic kind of girl then good luck. Just like guys in real life might not necessarily reflect the ideas of guys on here it's the same with girls. Just this very sentence " The girls on here tend to be much more feminist, much more conservative, much more slut-shaming..." is a very very bad generalization you are making.
They are like that in real life too but they don't say it out loud. Like I had a friend in one of my classes who got pregnant out of wedlock and I said she should be happy she had a child. Online I told a girl she shouldn't be having kids with people she's not married to.
Are you sure that most girls aren't the same as they are on GaG? Have you literally met every single woman in the world? I have met more females who are feminists than females who aren't. Some women fear male disapproval and so don't actually voice what they're thinking, which is sad.
Guys are the same way. People have the courage to say what they really think on here because there won't be physical repercussions for it. That's why you see so many hateful people on the internet. They know they'd get their ass kicked if the world really knew how terrible of a human being they are so they hide it in person and unleash it on the internet.
I really do agree with you, I've thought about this a lot. Same thing with "hot guys" or whatever, girls on here say that they would never date a hot guy unless they have a good personality, but in reality, if they see a shirtless guy with abs and shit... Yeah... You know what i mean... I'm not saying all girls, but by far most of them.