I get a lot of messages on here from men asking me inappropiate questions or asking me or I'm single or telling me they think we should get together. I counted it up. 59 people.
Now, I've been on this website for a long time, and I remember when it was about advice. I rarely got messages from people asking me to be their betrothed, or whatever. I can't be the only person on here who gets these sort of messages.
So really, when did this become a dating website? And why? How do you deal with these people? I get annoyed because I want to give people quality advice, not talk about whether "you suck dick like a vacuum" or whatever.
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- No I'm fine with it6% (2)18% (7)13% (9)Vote
- Doesn't make a difference to me19% (6)42% (17)32% (23)Vote
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Yes it bothers me. I don't like men (sometimes a lot older) from around the world asking if I'm single and getting genuinely sad when I tell them I'm not interested in them. I want people to appreciate my contribution and posts, not try to date me! If I want to date, I will use a dating site but until then, leave me alone!
I recommend you ignore them, be blunt and tell them how it is or just block them if they're a nuisance. This makes me want to write a myTake about it, telling people not to treat it like a dating site!4
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