I get a lot of messages on here from men asking me inappropiate questions or asking me or I'm single or telling me they think we should get together. I counted it up. 59 people.
Now, I've been on this website for a long time, and I remember when it was about advice. I rarely got messages from people asking me to be their betrothed, or whatever. I can't be the only person on here who gets these sort of messages.
So really, when did this become a dating website? And why? How do you deal with these people? I get annoyed because I want to give people quality advice, not talk about whether "you suck dick like a vacuum" or whatever.
Yes it bothers me. I don't like men (sometimes a lot older) from around the world asking if I'm single and getting genuinely sad when I tell them I'm not interested in them. I want people to appreciate my contribution and posts, not try to date me! If I want to date, I will use a dating site but until then, leave me alone!
I recommend you ignore them, be blunt and tell them how it is or just block them if they're a nuisance. This makes me want to write a myTake about it, telling people not to treat it like a dating site!
I've been here a long time, and it seems to be the more popular this site becomes, the more thirsty guys there are.
Also this site has become more internationally known outside of the USA... and maybe those other cultures are so sexually repressed that guys of those cultures use sites like GaG to release that built up sexual energy.
I think that thus is mainly a girl problem, as guys don't get these messages. There are stupid males everywhere that just flirt with any girl that is a real person. I have never had a girl do that to me, so I'm guessing hat the girls on this site are fairly normal. Also, i do not message girls on thus site unless they have become my friend. But even so
I'd we do become friends there is no flirting... So just block the guys that do that stuff
Voted D. Srsly who cares if other people use it like that? As long as it doesn't effect you negatively then what's the problem? You do you, @QA. Don't waste ur time worrying about other peoples lives, it may not seem like it, but it IS just that simple... (:
Its not a dating but the people on here have made it one, but It doesn't bother me
i think you are a hypocritic fuck. I think some people find it nice to hear some good comments about themselves. And its good if opposite sex likes them. Definitely weirdos would hate that. Oh yeah you do know a lot about " quality advice", when you tell a girl how to suck a dick ;). oh yes you are good with counting, why don't you count how many dicks you have blown, I bet it must be just over a million ;)
My profile pic will remain as it is. I'm sick of people judging me whenever I show my face online. I've received a few rude emails from random members calling me an attention whore. Wtf.
But it's even worse when you have random creepers making sexual comments after the first few messages. Like, "Hey baby, you're face would look even cuter if we were banging." Come on, are people that desperate? Light flirting is ok, but I'd rather have a meaningful conversation than read horny comments from morons around the world.
When your a woman online your a target for men to want try get with you. This website should only be about advice. And a lot of men esspically online and dating sites get bold becuase all do send messages and don't have see face to to face. So many of these men would never have confidence to ask woman out in person.
It hard be woman online. Even I have gotten messages, and I'm a lesbain with no picture.
It's happened to me too, and it's just bizarre. I like talking about dating, giving and receiving advice about relationships, but a random message from someone I've never spoken to is so strange. I mean, would you really expect me to commit to a relationship with a guy I don't even know? Sorry, no thanks.
I have been on this site since 2011 and from what I recall it becomes a dating site after 2 years or more. Now, it's worst especially when it is well known by the people around the world. I have been checked out few times by guys from different countries. Yes it's annoying.