I see them every day, and it's always the same people who get tagged. Also, I never see a similar question about make GaGers. It is really annoying, and I feel like I don't amount to anything because most of the women on here are beautiful. It really lowers my self esteem, you know
It's the same with the "Who's your friend on GaG" questions. Those just make me feel like a loner. :'(
Is it just me who feels sad reading those types of questions? Please answer honestly.
I'm getting tired of all the questions where GaGers pretend they know each other. "Hottest GaGer" "Funniest GaGer" "Your favorite GaGer" And of course the never-ending string of "who's your GaGer crush?" questions...
But honestly, they dont really bother me. Sometimes im mentioned, sometimes im not. I find that most of the time, the main reasons why someone gets no mentions is because they dont have a profile pic up, or they are too new/lack a presence on here so they people dont recall their usernames. People who constantly post anonymous aren't going to get mentioned as much in those questions as a regular user who has a good picture up and who makes an effort in the opinions they post. Personally, im just getting tired with the frequency of them. I don't have a problem with people asking the question though
Well it does bug me because its a dumb question to begin with, who cares, this isn't a site to brag about the prettiest people, the questions are an ego trip for the person mentioned and it's an oportunity for people to be like "hey! Just in case you didn't know how much of a creep I am, let's give an opinion on who we stalk the most on GaG.
I'm fairly well known on this website (I write too many myTakes basically) but I'm rarely tagged in those types of questions, almost never in those friendship questions. I'm not good at replying and making friendships online, I don't talk to loads of people. You get used to it after a while. You shouldn't feel inferior though. Everyone is a valued member here. Just because you don't get mentioned on a question, it doesn't mean you're not good enough or no-one likes you.
If you would like to be mentioned one time, get involved with the community, have a memorable username, show your face and rarely go anonymous. Ask questions, give good opinions and write myTakes and people will start noticing and remembering you. :)
I do get tagged sometimes in those questions but those are just popularity contests. A little while ago I also never got tagged, but now I kinda got a name here. I'm not really fan of those questions either, because I know some people will feel left behind.
If other girls getting complimented make you feel like you don't amount to anything and lowers your self-esteem, you ARE jealous.
I mean seriously, who gives a toss? This is a discussion site, not a circle jerk.
If you don't like those posts, stop reading them. You can easily NOT click on a question titled "who's the hottest x?", but you choose time and time again to read through the comments and upset yourself.
No it's funny. GAG is not a representation of real life to me. It can't be compared to six billion people on earth. I cannot be jealous of someone i don't even know who they are. Anyway I don't stay here every single hour of the day feeding on negative material posted by people. I got a LIFE outside of GAG.
I'm indifferent to them but it's pointless. The reason for this site is to give advice to people that actually need help but it seems like those questions aren't given as much attention as "If you murdered someone, what GAGer would you blame?"