Okay, so most of the people I know on this site are pretty great and friendly. I don't mind giving my Skype out so yeah, it's on my profile because why not
Anyhow, a few times a few people added me on Skype and sent me... images of their penises. This other dude talked me into a camera chat (no, I didn't turn mine on) and he was wanking and omegle came to my mind once again and I told him to go to hell.. and then there's the sexual talk that makes way into my inbox and I just have no idea how to tell these people to stop (I don't like blocking people..) and my age is obviously on my profile so they should be aware that stuff like that is not really approperiate.
I'm aware that every site has their creeps, but from experience GAG seems to be oversaturated with them.
I think the reason why there is a disproportionate number of 'creepy guys' on this site is because of the nature of the site itself. It is a site dedicated to helping people who are having problems with interpersonal relationships. Some people are here strictly to help, but a lot of people are here because they have trouble with interactions with their desired gender. So there are a lot of guys on this site who don't know how to talk to girls, don't know how to interact with girls, don't know how to behave around girls... because if they did, they wouldn't be here asking questions. They wouldn't need to know if their penis was an ok size, or how to convince a girl to give them a bj. They would be able to just meet girls, talk to girls, respect girls, and have productive interpersonal relationships with girls.
This applies to girls too though, it's not just broken guys that are here. Sure, the girls aren't sending guys dick pics, but there are a lot of broken girls on here that are in desperate need of near-constant reassurance and such.
An island of misfit toys is going to have its fair share of misfits.
Yeah that's probably illegal if they are adults exposing themselves to you. I don't see the appeal of masturbating in front of a person I don't know lol O. O I really don't understand what they're getting from that. I don't understand dick pics or wanting to sext a girl they don't know. It's clearly a sexual turn on though I bet.
Apologies for creeps on site - Any large internet forum will have them. You said you don't want to do it but you have a few options (1) Block/Report (2) Set messaging to only accept messages from people you know (3) Set your profile to private
You should at least provide a secondary profile, not your main. There are many creepers here. I'm not even sure why they're here, they clearly aren't here to engage in discussions or anything. They're just here to send people dick pics. I don't get the concept.
Ew that's horrible, I use Skype a lot but I tend to chat to people first and give it out to the few decent ones. I guess any site which has a lot of discussions about sex and relationships is going to have a lot of creeps on it, the nature of the site I guess! But not all of us are creeps. I mean seriously who thinks it's a good idea to send a pic of a penis - do they think women are supposed to swoon and fall in love with it right? I'll never understand guys who do that, it's incredibly desperate and pathetic. But I guess if they bug 100 girls one might actually talk to them right? lol.
It's the anonymity that draws out the creeps i think. they're anonymous and that gives them a feeling of security. I've noticed a lot of those on GaG too. i would love to kick them all from GaG but unfortunately i can't. best thing you can do is either block them or ignore them. though blocking seems easier.
You should never ever hive away social media information here on gag. Really. This place is full of creeps and before you know it, someone could've tracked you down. I only gave my snapchat once to a guy here and I still talk to him. Only give it away if you're sure that the person is trustable.
They turn up everywhere just tell them your not interested If I was you I would take your Skype off your profile Any messages you receive that aren't appropriate tell them 'I'm to young and not interested' if any keep responsible ignore it until it becomes excessive and then block them.. The had their chances
There's a filter you can put to stop people to message you unless you follow them. Unfortunately, you have to handle the creeps if you decide to be friendly instead of selective over the internet. It's not something you can't help.
You are not alone lol I just say "ok no!" They usually stop in my inbox at that point.
If you don't want things like that happening, then you have to not give out your information. It would be nice to just tell them to stop and them listen, but that's not how life works. You can't get whatever you want. There are bad people out there that won't care whether you like it or not. Let this be a lesson for the future.