Most Helpful Girl
You gain them by being active on the site.
be active, asnwer questions, post questions and you get xper points :)
If you go to your profile and click on the 'help' button then go to Xper, it'll explain everything and say how you get points
I see the link to the page detailing how to earn points has already been posted... in general the rule is: interact and gain points.
For example: per opinion you get 2 points... so answer 10 questions and you have 20 points in the pocket :D
From time to time you'll get a most helpful opinion which will earn you some additional points.
And it's fun to do all that so enjoy and earn :D
You accumulate them!
You get 5 whenever you masturbate.
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.