Is sometimes having self-pity bad?

I sometimes feel like having self-pity. It's not all the time. I take responsbility for my life, but there are times were I just want to be weak. Is having self-pity once in while bad?

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I sometimes feel better expressing it to someone. I take responsibility afterwards when I feel stronger again. I feel it's like letting out my negative emotions. It works for me since I don't have friends to talk to.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • No it's not as log as you don't allow it to become permanent. Everyone feels it and sometimes it feels good and you'll need it, but the key is comming out of it fairly soon

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What Girls Said 1

  • It's not bad but it will get you nowhere.

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What Guys Said 4

  • My ex thought I had self pity, I usually think pity without counsel is insulting, and when I told her what i was feeling and what was going on she would say that.

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  • We all feel self pity now and again

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  • it's bad anyway in my opinion.. i believe u shouldn't put down yerself 8)

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  • No, as long as it doesn't break you

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