I wish I did, but I've never really talked with girls. Hence, why I'm still a virgin. I'm completely clueless about girls. That being said, I hate talking because people have attacked me and betrayed me in the past. They take whatever I say and used it against me to embarrass me. I feel destroyed. Needless to say, I stopped talking to all my friends. I don't need them. I think I'm dying from living in solitude. So to answer your question, men should feel just as curious and chatty if they truly love you. Otherwise they end up like me, a recluse.
Yes, when i have a special woman in my life i like to take in what she's saying and i like to listen to her cause she's a voice to be heard i always will place a woman before myself cause that's the way i see things in life and when a couple have a child it's the the child and woman who comes first in the relationship that's just the way i see things.
I'm not entirely sure I know what you mean, but I'm getting that you find men fascinating. Like maybe you wish you could eavesdrop on locker room chat. So if you overhear a group of guys at a restaurant, you're listening intently on everything they're saying seeing if you can learn something about how men think. or maybe just hear some gossip?