I don't think it's just this site but the Internet in general. The Internet has always been a haven for people with poor social skills or loners so there's a bigger chance that you'll come across people that struggle to fit in (and might be bitter about it) online than irl. Also, people are more likely to vent their negative feelings online than to or in front of people irl as there are higher consequences. If you harass or insult a girl on gag, you get your account suspended. Do it irl and you could get suspended from school or college or end up chatting to the police. This site can wind up providing opportunities for guys to rant at girls with less risk than irl. It happens in online gaming too I believe.
Also, this site is designed to cater for people struggling to understand the opposite sex. Some of them may just come here to rant and want girls to hear it.
Why there isn't an equal number of bitter girls on this site (which there isn't in my opinion, there are bitter girls here but less so than guys), I've no idea.
I don't think the guys on this site are especially bitter.
Most likely, men whom you encounter in real life just aren't telling you what they really think about various things, because they are scared of female disapproval. People in general are scared of disapproval, but men are especially scared of female disapproval.
It's easy to label them as bitter from a female perspective
When it comes to things like simple relationship issues, marriage, dating, or just socializing. You aren't aware of what it's like dealing with females
The whole male/female dynamic is seen drastically different from our side compared to yours.
Women live in a completely different world, as do some men. This is do to the lack of perspective. If a man tried to tell you about how things are on his end as a male, majority of females would dismiss it as nonsense.
Well, I try to straightforward with people. Hopefully I'm not coming off as bitter to people haha. It could have to do with their personality and the fact there is an anonymous button. I've seen a lot of guys that seem cool, but I have indeed seen bitter people...
Hmmm... I may use the word creepy before bitter though.
Oh, I own bitter. Believe me. I wasted the best years of my life on it. I wish I hadn't. It took to long to realize the problem wasn't them, it was me. I have to live with that. I may die with it. But I've accepted it. And that brought me some measure of peace. I haven't given up hope, of course. There's always the chance.
I don't think they're bitter, but unhappy about their life or being single. I think they use this site or other forums as an emotional outlet because they might have no friends or emotional support. They may just want a girlfriend because they're lonely. Personally, I try to help them because they probably just want some emotional support, but do a poor job expressing themselves which lead them to more frustration. I think it's best to avoid guilty tripping them or laughing at them because it is sort of unfair to them.
Cause many girls are very immature. Like for example, I've been trying to get this girl on a date for two weeks now. It's funny how she responds to my texts, but doesn't answer when I call, and always agrees to a date and location, but doesn't respond when I ask hey is this time ok? You meet three or four of these girls in a row and you would become bitter too.
A lot of them either feel entitled or have low self esteem. I have always been either unlucky or rejected when it comes to dating but I don't blame the girls. Yet I'm optimistic and have hope I'll meet someone that will love me. Those who are bitter either blame girls or lost hope.
Well, if a person spends too much time of the day in this website you can say that their life is very bad. Then they come here and rant and complain how unfair the world is, how girls like to friendzone the nice guys, how they've been cursed with a small penis, and bla bla bla.
I just say: move your ass and go live your life, instead of feeling sorry for yourself.
You act like there's not any bitter women on here lol every other post is
"Why doesn't he like me" "Hes forcing me to have sex i dont want that" "Why do guys like slutty girls" "How come guys only like blondes" "Why dont guys like curvy girls" "What does she have that i dont" "Why does he only wanna fuck me" "Eww she's so skinny" "My boyfriend tried to get with my friend"
Because women mistreat us and take advantage of us. It is hard to fight it. I recently just got out of a HORRIBLE relationship. My girlfriend took everything I gave her and NEVER reciprocated. Now that I am dating I am only using women for sex and since women want relationships so much, I make them think that us having sex will lead to something further and it doesn't.
Because it's a QA site. Which means guys and girls here need answers from the other gender with their problems. Ofcourse that doesn't mean everyone here has those problems, but it sure attracts people with problems in dating etc. If people have problems in dating, they can become bitter. Why especially guys than girls? Haven't figured that out yet,