It really makes me feel like shit and lonely..
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Most Helpful Guy
Here's something you should know: Yes, there are a couple dozen or some "famous" users, but a lot of what you see on the surface is just for show. When you look at the situation at a deeper level, you will see that not too many people actually talk to each other beyond the superficial stuff you see in comments. A lot of the most popular users don't know people as well as it may seem. As @Ihav2fart said, there often isn't much connection beyond what you see on the surface. This is why i personally make it point to actually private message people who intrigue me, and try to garner more from them than what they choose to show publicly. That way, you form real connections and relationships with people.
Based on what i know of what people do on here with double accounts, fake profiles and the like, its very clear to me that there is a deep longing amongst a lot of gag'ers (especially some of the so called popular ones) for real connection with people. So there isn't any real reason to feel like shit, because frankly there is nothing to be envious about half the time. If you want to make friends, be proactive, abandon your shyness, and message people that seem interesting on the surface. You may find that a person is better than you expected, or worse. If i left GaG tomorrow, I know i would be leaving with at least a handful of friendships that will last long after i left here... and the only reason for this is because in most of those cases, i was proactive enough to message the person first and get a relationship started there out of nothing. That's what you need to do.18
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Most Helpful Girl
There are few of us who have been Around awhile, made a name for Ourselves and worked Hard to get to the level that we have.
Thank you for this Update here, dear, never gave it a thought actually. I feel that just Being on GAG for a year and a half, having made it to this Level, I fit In with Many GAGERS, who I Feel are part of the GAG Community, no Matter What, and the ones who I have helped, are Just as Important if Not more so.
Don't feel blue, you may be new, and with Using your Real name, we can get you In there so you don't feel so crappy, by Being Seen all Over.
Good luck. xx4