I don't usually start any conversation, unless I'm curious about something then yea I'd message them to ask about it. Who isn't afraid that they'd be too annoying to the other user? But yeah I do talk to one or two gagers through pms. I try to be very careful as to not talk too much, because irl I don't talk much, I talk best when I'm writing, hence I always reply in paragraphs, even if I didn't intend to. So I always remind myself to just keep it simple. I'm the kind of person that could talk a lot once I feel comfortable with you, I'd slowly let my walls down and feel at ease when talking with you. This is something I really dislike about myself because I'd be paranoid that I'm gonna be annoying.
once a time i'd found someone very interesting i wanted to send a message to, so i went to this bystander and asked him,"do you know where she might could be?" while i pulling out a note there was a name on it "what's her name?" then i became irritated, i thought he was being rude, so i said "can't you even read? or you just illiterate?" "i don't see a frigging name on it!" he didn't look very friendly now "her name is anonymous! you hear me? anonymous. that's her name" i really pissed off. "look at there, you moron, there are so many anonymous out there, how do i suppose to..."before he hardly finished his speaking "because she's unique! Unique!!""do you even know what's that mean? huh?" i yelled at him. Then we stared at each other for a minute.
Not often i get some people who follow me to message me that I help one girl deleted her account after i could no longer give her the help she needed and the other one blocked me cause she wanted to hear that her ex should take her back after they broke up 3 weeks ago in mean while she is 30 and he is 24 and not even her kids father ,,
I guess it would really depend on the context of your messages. Personally I don't mind if people message me in most cases as long as they aren't being rude or weird. It's a site for giving/receiving advice and sometimes it's better to take that advice to a private area rather than having to deal with the trolls and ignorant people judging you.
I usually don't start conversations, even if I do wanna talk to certain people, cause I'm too paranoid that I'd be annoying n stuff. But, yeah, I do talk with a few GAGers through PMs quite a lot and I enjoy it :) With them I don't feel like I annoy them, cause we're friends and I doubt they'd continue messaging me if they thought I was annoying.
I Get a lot of Daily Messages here, dear, with problems, soft talk and just want To... Talk. Often a few will say they do not mean to bother me or even vent, but I am always polite to them and try to be there for them, keeping up with my flow, as always on the GAG GO. Don't feel like this, sweetie. If they don't want to talk, I am sure you would not be in their list of Followers or Following you. Good luck. xx
I usually never message other gagers unless they message me first - I'm just too shy so even if I find that person has interesting opinions and stuff I most likely wouldn't message them because I would fear that I'd just be annoying to them, too.. it's kinda sad tho because I've actually met some chill people on here, I bet I could know so many cool people more if I would only get rid of this stupid shyness
I don't message a lot of GaGer's. It's not because I don't want to, but I have a lot of social anxiety, general anxiety, etc... it's actually kind of crippling to my everyday life. Messaging people in general stresses me out so much. I have two friends who I need to message right now and I feel like shit because I haven't messaged them yet. I feel even worse for not messaging back a stranger. Weird, right? I just feel bad, but it's really hard for me to message people so I barely do.