That is a good question... Can we ask what we want.
Well I would see why not considering you're the question asker if anything the real question should be "Can we leave our true opinion?" without the QA not taking our advice, finding it offensive, or getting reported.
Last time I checked GirlAskGuys was an Advice Column/Site and your question/what you're referring to are the questions that has absolutely nothing to do with that they're the questions that would fall under the other category and no offense but are less important.
Sure you can ask whatever you want but obviously you already have your answer. You have to water it down you're lucky those kind of questions are even acceptable when they're pretty off topic and doesn't solve a purpose in the first place.
Yea, the admins are close minded, short tempered 12 year olds. Even if a controversial tread results in an argument, the worst possible outcome that I can see is people blocking each other online. We have no right to free speech if you have 100% control over what stays and what goes.
Yes, sometimes GAG users are too sensitive. However other times, people are simply insensitive and lack effective communication skills. Some people have no clue how to deliver the truth with tact, consideration, and courtesy for someone's emotional state and the position they're in. It's not necessarily about "watering it down" but about not presenting yourself as one insensitive dumb fuq of an idiot. :)
Some topics are naturally heated, like religion or politics. In those cases, people often perceive a blunt but well-thought out argument as a personal attack on them, since the topic itself goes towards a person's core values. They can't tell the difference between substance and a personal attack on them.
So yeah, be blunt. Just be warned you'll get a lot of hate from people perceiving it the wrong way.
Yes since a certain amount of people can't handle the truth or being told they are wrong. Plus then you also have people that are extremely nit picky on how you asked a question and make more out of it.