I never had a GAG crush (yet), although there are certainly attractive girls on here. I'm that weird person who has no problems socializing in the real world, but then as soon as I sit behind a computer screen, I become the shyest person around. Even if I know the person in real life, I just get silent. That lack of person-to-person interaction kills me.
If magically some girl came online and blew me off my feet and messaged me or something, I would just deal with it as I do in real life I suppose. Get to know them to confirm that my feelings are based around something real and ask them for their number or something... whatever is acceptable in internet relationships.
Lol I answer on the questions that I have a crush a bunch of times anonymously. Then I finally get up the nerve to confess who it is and get a bunch of up votes.
Then I continually say who my crush is on other questions because people keep asking the same question. And eventually when someone ask that question again I'll announce that I no longer have a crush on him or or at all.
it's simple: I don't develop crushes. my method for doing so is actually even more straightforward. I assume everyone on the entire internet is a 25+ year old male, until proven otherwise in person. So, if "the hottest girl on GaG" started asking me to sext with her, for example, I'd basically be thinking "dude! where did you get that hot picture? Who is that? please tell me it's your sister, and she happens to live in iowa city.."
Of course, I would only think this, I wouldn't say it...
In my case, I'd call it a little more than a crush (that sounds too middle school)... maybe two friends who care deeply for one another and would like to have a relationship someday but don't live close enough to do so...
Either way... just be grateful that you have some form of communication with them and have them in your life in someway. If timing and finances work out, then do your best to try and meet in person, even if it doesn't work out the first couple times. :/ It hurts not being able to see that person, but that's the best advice I can give.
Luckily, I've never had this problem because I barely message people. I really bad at messaging so I don't get close to people on here. :/
If you have a crush, squash it by getting a new one on someone that you live near/go to school with, OR talk to the GaGer that you're crushing on and get to know them. Maybe something could come out of it.