Why do people tolerate virgin shaming on GAG?

Both slut-shaming and virgin-shaming are bad because they shame a perosn's sexuality which is no one's business. I seen people speak agaisnt slut-shaming which is good. Yet, I see people who support assholes who virgin-shame on this site and treat them as they're cool guys. Why don't people speak out agaisnt those guys as well? Shaming should only be used on bad behavior not on someone personal decision about their life that doesn't hurt anyone. Why don't more people do that?

Updates:
I stand corrected. :)

Well enjoy answering the question anyways. :P

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What Girls Said 5

  • I see tons of slut-shaming, but rarely virgin-shaming. I agree that both are equally bad, but I only see one happening.

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    • You're right. Now that I recall, I seen a lot of slut-shaming as well, unfortunately. I just got caught off guard with one incident of virgin-shaming. Though I think it's a good opportunity to mention both.

  • I am yet to be shamed for being a virgin

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  • o-o um
    where does that happen? lol what

    Seems like virgins get praised here
    Sooo

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  • I just started out on this site like two days ago, why is it such a big deal, I still haven't swiped my v-card yet but I'm not worried about it at all, doesn't really matter how everything is down there... as long as it doesn't look like raw beat up inside out ham burger meat... then all vaginas are perfectly fine, virgin or not.

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    • It's bad because it shaming people for something that is nobodies' else business. All forms of shaming are wrong, unless people are shaming negative behavior. For example, shaming someone for harassing a woman and calling them a creep is alright because the creep is hurting someone/affecting someone else negatively. However, shaming someone for wearing a red T-shirt or any other personal choice that doesn't affect anybody else life is plain wrong. Virgin and slut shaming are wrong for the same reasons because someone sexuality is no ones' business other than the person.

  • LOL SHUT UP YOU VIRGIN 😂

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    • Here we go again. :D

    • Oh come on, you can't post a question like that and expect nothing.

    • Oh I'm joking as well. I didn't take offense. I meant to say that a jokingly matter. :P

What Guys Said 1

  • I never seen virgin shaming on here

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