Lol at everyone telling you to get over it. News fucking flash: IF IT WAS THAT EASY THEN SHE PROBABLY WOULDN'T BE ASKING! Smh I don't get humans sometimes.
Anyway, have you expressed to him that you have feelings? If not, then maybe you should. I'm not saying flat out tell the man that you love him, but just expressing that you like him more than just a friend. One of two things may happen. He'll express the same feelings, or he won't. Either way it might help you in figuring out what your next steps are.
The first thing I would do, is carefully telling him and talking about it... running away will only make you miss him and feel sorry afterwards :o And if he already knows that you like him it will probably not be shocking... are you guys living far from each other?
Like people said, spend less time here. Actually, I would recommend you to stop coming here at all. Go enjoy your life ok? Go out with friends, go to the movies, go practice some sports and do outdoor activities.
Soon you'll get over with it. And I bet you'll be much happier and healthier doing these other things to :) Good luck.
I'm gonna be the first chick on here who doesn't try to trivialize your feelings. Fucking ashamed of my gender, but not surprised.
I've found that the chasm of inaction is the worst possible place to be. Right now, you're in the limbo of "what if." What if I never get over him? What if he doesn't like me back? What if he DID?
Have you tried to tell him how you feel, or revealed your true self to him? I see that you've seen his picture and heard his voice. Has he heard yours? Has he thought to ask? What if he doesn't care whether he hears or sees you or not? What does that mean, if anything?
I hope you see what I'm getting at: that if you truly want to get over this feeling, you need to know exactly where he stands. You need to tell him how you feel and then accept his reaction. Only then can you begin grieving (heartbreak) or pink clouding (reciprocation), and both those feelings will even out and stabilize over time. What you can't keep doing now is... well, this.
And yes, my advice would be different if you knew them in person. Take advantage of the opportunity that this is online and that you can honestly make a 100% break off if that is what you need to do to cope.
Good luck - feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to! <3
How can you love someone you never met? Love is a lot more than an intellectual bond. It's physical and emotional. When you fall in love with someone you're falling in love with a million little microexpressions that you don't see with text on a screen.
What you're feeling is at best infatuation. You're mesmerized with the idea of what this guy (or girl) is in your own head. And you're young so that explains some of it.
My advice is to step away from GaG for a bit. Sites like this aren't meant to have an affect on your real life personality. They can be fun and maybe informative but they are NOT a substitute for making real life connections
Rules for when you have feelings for a gager 1. request a cam chat 2. you find out if they really are who they say they are 3. after the cam chat you will realize if you actually like them or not. 4. send all gag members a wedding invitation if it works out.