Umm, don't be afraid to Pm your fellow #GAGers because it seems that most people won't mind your company if and when you enter their inbox 1st on here ^_^. But if you're going to message ___ 1st please for the love of all that is holy do not start the message/s with " #HI or #HEY " unless you've already been talking to ___ around the site.
Because a opening generic message = generic convo/won't last that long usually when it comes to 2 complete strangers trying to have fun over the web 70% of the time ^_^ (in the gaming/anime world it works pretty well though since those topics can be talked about for days #while you guys are gaming together on Xbox live for example)
Lol, JUST DO IT. I also wanna talk to some people privately sometimes but I don't wanna bother them. There have been a few times when I was like FUCK IT and messaged them despite my concerns, never got a negative response. You're a cool girl and most people know that, I don't think you have any reason to be afraid.
I have the same fear. I always feel like I'm annoying them 😅 I love talking to people on here, but I'm always really hesitant to initiate conversations.
However, I think most people are happy when someone messages them to talk to them. As long as you don't send any unwanted pics of genitals to them, I'm sure that things will turn out positively. If no one ever initiates a conversation, there will never be a conversation.
It's best to only do it with people you often interact with... and don't forget that if people do wrong you can always report them! Someone who does wrong to you, does most probably also tell wrong things to other member :o Oh and it's not weird to PM, just be friendly to people and you'll be fine :D
Lol just message them if they don't respond just wait a bit, gotta remember we're all in different time zones and places around the world, just be careful who you message some people on here can be real sick or perverted.
it's only weird if you make it weird. but if you just wanna start some normal chitchat then there's nothing wrong with that. if people are not interested then they'll say so, and that's not the end of the world. Nothing you have to be afraid of
Oh shit girl... You go for it hun... time to step out and be strong. Do it !!! I dare ya. Nothing to be afraid of.. so what if they reject you or say something., You're most likely a great person... so it's their loss for not giving or allowing you a chance, (Gotta be strong)
I don't ever really answer private messages unless I have spoken to you beforehand on a question or take or something. I don't like receiving private messages because they are inevitably from gross dudes looking for masturbatory help. I'm not in that business, darling. Try elsewhere.
Stop being scared and go for it! You'll never know unless you try. You could be missing out on potential friendships with people because you're afraid. Nobody will think your weird for utilizing a function for what it's meant for! Be like Nike and JUST DO IT! 😊
The same goes for me. Sometimss I'm too afraid to bother them that even when I need to ask them something I'd wonder for days if I should do it. And if I ever did it, I'd scold myself and literally 'run away to hide'. Yeah, I'm that weird.
I'm sure they will talk. There's heaps of lonely introverts here. 😜 isn't what gag is for? A place to interact with other people. And they bitch that they hate people but they still are pouring their shit here.
We're here to answer questions, we're already talking to eachother. Most of us won't be creeped out, unless you're a creep of course! But a lot of us already know that you're a nice person so, don't hesitate and say hi to the people!
sending that first message can be nerve-wracking sometimes i'm usually comfortable PMing people who i've interacted with previously but some people i've never spoke to PMed me just for my advice you're always free to PM me if you like
Why would they think you are weird? If they really think you' are weird, people wouldn't have answered your questions :p You get lot of responses. Which means people think you're nice and likes you :)
I actually love it when people sends me messages. Cause I love making friends, getting to know them. Some people I met on here are really fun to talk to. It's amazing how much we have in common even though they grew up in other countries, different culture. It's sweet